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I think the OP has made it perfectly clear she isn't interested in taking over managing her investments, at least not right now. That said, I think that "running the numbers" yourself (FIRECALC, etc.) is a major help in getting over the fear of failure.
To the OP: It sounds to me like OMY syndrome in your case is tougher than usual because you know you have a pretty sweet deal going that could never be recreated. But you are 4 years past your planned ER and not getting any younger. So setting a tentative date in 2014 and keeping it to yourself and DH (and your new friends here at ER.org) is a good start - you can work through more financial scenarios and start to wrap your head around taking the plunge. If it feels right when you get close to the date, you'll know it, and if not, you don't have to go through with it.
Good luck!
To the OP: It sounds to me like OMY syndrome in your case is tougher than usual because you know you have a pretty sweet deal going that could never be recreated. But you are 4 years past your planned ER and not getting any younger. So setting a tentative date in 2014 and keeping it to yourself and DH (and your new friends here at ER.org) is a good start - you can work through more financial scenarios and start to wrap your head around taking the plunge. If it feels right when you get close to the date, you'll know it, and if not, you don't have to go through with it.
Good luck!