I am 52 and have twin 13 yo daughters. I believe I have the funds for ER (will be debt free by end of the year and have saved enough for college for the kids) and I am more than emotionally ready (ie burned out at work), but I was looking for some input from anyone who went for ER before the kids were out of the house. Pros, Cons and any suggestions appreciated.
After carefully considering the implications for many months, I pulled the plug as a 55 y.o. single parent earlier this year. Kids are 14 (F) and 11 (M). My wife of 30 years (and their mother) died in early 2014, nearly a year after her cancer diagnosis. Sold the only home the kids knew in July and moved 600 miles to what I believe is a better environment for them to finish growing up.
Similar to you, I believe I'm adequately funded to live OK, plus have their higher education costs banked separately.
I like that I am able to be active in their lives, whether it's volunteering at school, talking in the car back and forth to school, or getting them to the beach a few times a week
. There is now always time to talk and I want to make sure I have a strong relationship with them, and they with each other. This is the time in their lives to be present and available, even as they want more time away from parents.
As for the downsides, I was initially concerned about setting an example that would help them connect work with it's financial benefits. They were already familiar with my workload and travel, but after engaging them in the budgetary aspects of vacation planning and watching them adjust schedules and activities to bring costs down, I knew they got it
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The other possibility I see on the horizon is my own boredom. We've dealt with plenty of change in the last 2.5 years and settling in at our new location will take some time. I'm getting a couple of things lined up to keep my self challenged once we're past that.
I've done it with no regrets, so expect me to biased
. Go forward, enjoy your life - and take advantage of the time to help your girls grow into the best women they can be.