Nobulife
Recycles dryer sheets
As I walked across the office parking lot to my car for the last time(Feb 2011) I was still reeling from the shock of being unexpectedly laid off when a strange thing happened. I felt a huge weight lifting from my shoulders and when I drove away it was not with anger or fear but with relief and an overwhelming feeling of freedom. It was not a vague feeling but a specific realization that I was finally free from all the BS that the most industrious shoveling could not keep at bay....I was finally free to live a nobul life.
So far it has been a life of angst, uncertainty, self doubt and frustration but all of those combined are preferable to what I had in the workplace.
Within days of the layoff I was at the credit union with a spreadsheet of projected expenses and current and future assets and pension incomes. The planner said retirement was feasible and I am certainly going to make it work.
My husband still works at a non -pensioned, low paying job that he no longer likes but he is hesitant to make the break.
Our plan is to sell our lovely condo and downsize to a small house or mobile home in a small community elsewhere in British Columbia. We had it on the market for 3 months almost sold but when we got that close panicked a little as we had not resolved the where are we going question. The sale fell through which was probably a good thing but now we are off the market and I am starting to get frustrated. It makes sense to stay here until husbands government pensions kick in next year but we could get by on my company pension from my lifelong job that I was forced to take an erp from 4 years ago plus my good unemployment pay that will last until April 2012. Plus I can start one of my government pensions in December after I turn 60. So what is holding us up? Fear I think. Fear that we have to get our next home right as we don't have the finances to afford a mistake.
The planner's idea was that we sell, buy a much cheaper place and invest a chunk that will pay out a monthly amount when I turn 65. But finding a cheap place is quite difficult so my question to any of you who have stuck with me thus far is are we better to invest more money in a better home (and have a lot less money left over)and forgo the added income with the thought that our next and final move would be to sell the house and move into government subsidized care? Or should we stick to the first plan?
By the way the reason we want to move somewhere else is so that we can be near a lake and go fishing without having to spend megabucks on gas.
So far it has been a life of angst, uncertainty, self doubt and frustration but all of those combined are preferable to what I had in the workplace.
Within days of the layoff I was at the credit union with a spreadsheet of projected expenses and current and future assets and pension incomes. The planner said retirement was feasible and I am certainly going to make it work.
My husband still works at a non -pensioned, low paying job that he no longer likes but he is hesitant to make the break.
Our plan is to sell our lovely condo and downsize to a small house or mobile home in a small community elsewhere in British Columbia. We had it on the market for 3 months almost sold but when we got that close panicked a little as we had not resolved the where are we going question. The sale fell through which was probably a good thing but now we are off the market and I am starting to get frustrated. It makes sense to stay here until husbands government pensions kick in next year but we could get by on my company pension from my lifelong job that I was forced to take an erp from 4 years ago plus my good unemployment pay that will last until April 2012. Plus I can start one of my government pensions in December after I turn 60. So what is holding us up? Fear I think. Fear that we have to get our next home right as we don't have the finances to afford a mistake.
The planner's idea was that we sell, buy a much cheaper place and invest a chunk that will pay out a monthly amount when I turn 65. But finding a cheap place is quite difficult so my question to any of you who have stuck with me thus far is are we better to invest more money in a better home (and have a lot less money left over)and forgo the added income with the thought that our next and final move would be to sell the house and move into government subsidized care? Or should we stick to the first plan?
By the way the reason we want to move somewhere else is so that we can be near a lake and go fishing without having to spend megabucks on gas.