Hello.
I have been reading the forum for awhile, but just now posting because I am REALLY ready to ER (been thinking about this for a long time).
I'm 44, and am planning to hand in my resignation on Jan 7,2005. In countdown mode....
I am so going to miss the people I work with, but not the crap! I know I need at least a year off to figure out if I am really ER'ing or just taking a sabbatical. We'll see. I am having some guilt over DH continuing to work (he is 50). He likes his job, and has a reasoable amount of time off as a consultant, vs. my 80 hours a week corporate nightmare.
I've saved over 50% of our nest egg, plus paid for most of our house (now paid for), but am feeling guilty as he still wants to work. He is looking forward to having me home and working on some home projects that we have been planning for awhile. But I still can't shake the guilt. And I do worry about the balance of power which is ok now when my salary is double is his.
Our finances are in reasonable shape. No debt, we could live on a short term basis off of an annuity paying $45 K a year. But we've got a decent portfolio on top of that, plus I will get a pension when I turn 65 (inflation hedge). I'm sure others have been through the question "maybe more would be better". But my mind is made up, I just have to move past the guilt.
Sorry for the long first post. I am stressing about writing my resignation letter, as my boss is probably going to freak out (I'm supposed to be the poster child for 40ish women in the company).
Any ER women out there whose husband's are still working ( I see the opposite in most cases).
Kay
I have been reading the forum for awhile, but just now posting because I am REALLY ready to ER (been thinking about this for a long time).
I'm 44, and am planning to hand in my resignation on Jan 7,2005. In countdown mode....
I am so going to miss the people I work with, but not the crap! I know I need at least a year off to figure out if I am really ER'ing or just taking a sabbatical. We'll see. I am having some guilt over DH continuing to work (he is 50). He likes his job, and has a reasoable amount of time off as a consultant, vs. my 80 hours a week corporate nightmare.
I've saved over 50% of our nest egg, plus paid for most of our house (now paid for), but am feeling guilty as he still wants to work. He is looking forward to having me home and working on some home projects that we have been planning for awhile. But I still can't shake the guilt. And I do worry about the balance of power which is ok now when my salary is double is his.
Our finances are in reasonable shape. No debt, we could live on a short term basis off of an annuity paying $45 K a year. But we've got a decent portfolio on top of that, plus I will get a pension when I turn 65 (inflation hedge). I'm sure others have been through the question "maybe more would be better". But my mind is made up, I just have to move past the guilt.
Sorry for the long first post. I am stressing about writing my resignation letter, as my boss is probably going to freak out (I'm supposed to be the poster child for 40ish women in the company).
Any ER women out there whose husband's are still working ( I see the opposite in most cases).
Kay