MRG
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Don't take this anyway but positive.
The biggest family issue, I've ever had was DF unacceptance of my DW. I would have married her to spite him. 38 years later, we're very happy, DF doesn't get what he lost out on.
The worst thing you can do is criticism of DD choice. Never allow the I told you so conversation to happen, even if you're right. You raised her, if she loves him, maybe her institints are correct. Be supportive so you leave the door open.
You said it, 'acceptance is the answer'. I do know its not easy, but it's the right thing to do.
Best wishes,
MRG
The biggest family issue, I've ever had was DF unacceptance of my DW. I would have married her to spite him. 38 years later, we're very happy, DF doesn't get what he lost out on.
The worst thing you can do is criticism of DD choice. Never allow the I told you so conversation to happen, even if you're right. You raised her, if she loves him, maybe her institints are correct. Be supportive so you leave the door open.
You said it, 'acceptance is the answer'. I do know its not easy, but it's the right thing to do.
Best wishes,
MRG