Hi all, back from Vegas and a long discussion with the DW regarding the need to alter our Trust.
For background; in another thread I asked for opinions on getting out of the dog house to which entry was gained by facial expressions due to reacting to comments by my SIL at Thanksgiving dinner. Namely, he ( with premeditation and deliberate intent) deceived a collegial friend at work and passed on privately gained information in order to ingratiate himself to his senior partner. The wife has now informed me that she is of a like mind to remove the said SIL from co-executor of our Trust.
So, that leads me to again ask for experiences or advice with regard to changing an existing Trust so that I go to my scheduled appointment with good questions in hand.
1. Will the Trust need to be completely re-written or is the executor changed by a codicil?
2. Should I consider using a Trust firm as the sole executor and just pay their costs?
3. Is it possible for my daughter to be the executor even though she is the sole beneficiary?
Questions are mainly because I will be using a new attorney that I have never met before and would like to be a bit more active in making the decisions.
Thanks very much for any inputs. BTW, I saw past threads on the subject but not specifially answering these questions.
For background; in another thread I asked for opinions on getting out of the dog house to which entry was gained by facial expressions due to reacting to comments by my SIL at Thanksgiving dinner. Namely, he ( with premeditation and deliberate intent) deceived a collegial friend at work and passed on privately gained information in order to ingratiate himself to his senior partner. The wife has now informed me that she is of a like mind to remove the said SIL from co-executor of our Trust.
So, that leads me to again ask for experiences or advice with regard to changing an existing Trust so that I go to my scheduled appointment with good questions in hand.
1. Will the Trust need to be completely re-written or is the executor changed by a codicil?
2. Should I consider using a Trust firm as the sole executor and just pay their costs?
3. Is it possible for my daughter to be the executor even though she is the sole beneficiary?
Questions are mainly because I will be using a new attorney that I have never met before and would like to be a bit more active in making the decisions.
Thanks very much for any inputs. BTW, I saw past threads on the subject but not specifially answering these questions.