tmm99
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Just ask. I know some people think it's rude. Some people don't care. I ask. And some of my friends go, "Oh, tmm99" like they're embarrassed. I am curious as to where people are from when they have an accent. But I have an accent myself. I ask other Asians especially, hoping I will meet another Japanese person where I live (Canada) especially in the volleyball scene. I do ask other people too if I am curious. I've never seen anybody looking annoyed, maybe because I have an accent myself? I don't know. Sometimes, I'd say "I'm from Japan. Where are you from?"
People ask me too. People ask me without really knowing me at all, like when I am shopping in a grocery store. Sometimes they come up to me and say "Chinese or Japanese?" "Korean or Chinese?" A bit annoying, but I don't care. Sometimes, when I say I'm Japanese, they may say a word or two in Japanese. They seem satisfied with that.
What used to annoy me was "How did you get a name like that (say, Hansen)?", looking at me (Asian). That's a stupid question IMHO. Some variation in answering that one. "I was married to a Hansen but decided to keep the name after my divorce." I sometimes anwered "I'm adopted."
DH is from the UK living in Canada and he gets a lot of "Are you from Australia?" This happens in different places, like with workers at stores. He is a Geordie. He finds their assumption quite amusing.
From my experience, people are proud of where they're from, and they don't mind telling you where they're from.
This isn't related to this thread directly, but when I first moved to the US/California (high school), kids would ask me where I was from and once they knew I was from Japan, they would ask really silly questions like "Do you guys really live in houses made of paper?" "Are Gozilla shows popular in Japan too?" "Is that true you guys eat whale?" Stuff like that. Older kids asked pretty direct questions about Pearl Harbour, stomic bombs, etc (They must have taken a history class or something.). Kids are neat. They are curious and they don't have to be afraid of asking whatever questions t that came to their mind.
People ask me too. People ask me without really knowing me at all, like when I am shopping in a grocery store. Sometimes they come up to me and say "Chinese or Japanese?" "Korean or Chinese?" A bit annoying, but I don't care. Sometimes, when I say I'm Japanese, they may say a word or two in Japanese. They seem satisfied with that.
What used to annoy me was "How did you get a name like that (say, Hansen)?", looking at me (Asian). That's a stupid question IMHO. Some variation in answering that one. "I was married to a Hansen but decided to keep the name after my divorce." I sometimes anwered "I'm adopted."
DH is from the UK living in Canada and he gets a lot of "Are you from Australia?" This happens in different places, like with workers at stores. He is a Geordie. He finds their assumption quite amusing.
From my experience, people are proud of where they're from, and they don't mind telling you where they're from.
This isn't related to this thread directly, but when I first moved to the US/California (high school), kids would ask me where I was from and once they knew I was from Japan, they would ask really silly questions like "Do you guys really live in houses made of paper?" "Are Gozilla shows popular in Japan too?" "Is that true you guys eat whale?" Stuff like that. Older kids asked pretty direct questions about Pearl Harbour, stomic bombs, etc (They must have taken a history class or something.). Kids are neat. They are curious and they don't have to be afraid of asking whatever questions t that came to their mind.
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