The items were auctioned on a Facebook group page.The question I would have is where was it auctioned If it were with only friends of the cat rescue place, then there might have not been enough eyes on the product.... I would want them to auction on EBay or some other large site with many eyes....
The group has 1800+ members.
I wouldn't want the auction to be on eBay.
It is what they call a home-based rescue - not 501(c)(3), and in the past I bought items from the auctions.If it is just a person who rescues cats informally and not a legal organization with board of directors then just take it for what it is. Be sure NOT to take a tax deduction for this because a charitable donation in this case would not be allowable.
I definitely do not take a tax deduction.
The money goes directly to the person who rescues the cats.Do the proceeds from the auction go directly to the person who rescues the cats? If so, I don't think you'll ever know if the bid for your item was actually paid by that person, to himself. Even less lkely imo is that the daughter paid the parent for it. Can you donate food or litter instead of participating in the auction, next time?
The rescuer does accept food and litter donations so I will do that going forward.
I should say that there were 30+ items in this auction, and this item was the only one where this anomaly occurred. I don't think LD thought about the ramifications of "how it looks" to a 3rd party.