tangomonster
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I thought I'd be taking baths rather than showers when I FIREd, at least some of the time, since I have the time and am devoting my life to relaxation. But it hasn't happened. Just used to showers, easier to wash hair in a shower, and as I remember them, after the first few minutes, the water gets tepid, etc.
But DH took a bath because he needed to soak after a medical procedure. He did not enjoy it and looked kind of pitiful in the tub, very cramped (and he's not that big, almost six feet and 158 pounds).
Recently when we were touring 55+ communities, I was amazed at how many had garden tubs. I thought it was kind of weird, since older people can have difficulty getting in and out of tubs, but they all had separate showers as well, and most of these communites were geared to very active seniors in their fifties and sixties, rather than seventies and eighties. And I thought it was just another luxury that was so unnecessary. But now after seeing him in the tub (I assume it's a standard size tub), I'm wondering what's going on. Did our expectations and standards become so big that a regular tub doesn't seem sufficient? Is it because in movies and TV shows, when people are shown bathing, it's in a big/garden tub that makes it look so much better than a builder-grade tub? (And does anyone in real life really light all those candles that they show when someone is bathing?)
And for those with bigger/garden tubs, do you use them a lot?
Just curious. My current home could not accommodate one, nor should I even be thinking about baths in Atlanta's severe drought!
But DH took a bath because he needed to soak after a medical procedure. He did not enjoy it and looked kind of pitiful in the tub, very cramped (and he's not that big, almost six feet and 158 pounds).
Recently when we were touring 55+ communities, I was amazed at how many had garden tubs. I thought it was kind of weird, since older people can have difficulty getting in and out of tubs, but they all had separate showers as well, and most of these communites were geared to very active seniors in their fifties and sixties, rather than seventies and eighties. And I thought it was just another luxury that was so unnecessary. But now after seeing him in the tub (I assume it's a standard size tub), I'm wondering what's going on. Did our expectations and standards become so big that a regular tub doesn't seem sufficient? Is it because in movies and TV shows, when people are shown bathing, it's in a big/garden tub that makes it look so much better than a builder-grade tub? (And does anyone in real life really light all those candles that they show when someone is bathing?)
And for those with bigger/garden tubs, do you use them a lot?
Just curious. My current home could not accommodate one, nor should I even be thinking about baths in Atlanta's severe drought!