Early Retirement Forums

Go Back   Early Retirement Forums > General > Other topics





Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old 10-05-2007, 10:07 AM   #1
ronin
Recycles dryer sheets
 
ronin's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Posts: 446
Boss' Day ?!

Are you kidding me? I got this memo that I'm supposed to kick in 10 bucks for ..... boss' day. I must have missed the announcement that there was such a thing. Sorry, but screw that. She can have 100% of everything I've ever gotten for "day of the teacher", which is about 2 coffee mugs over 20 years.
__________________

a surfer who hasn't wised up to the importance of hard shoes....
ronin is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 10:11 AM   #2
Martha
Administrator
 
Martha's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: minnesota
Posts: 10,066
This is shameful. I heard about bosses day a few years ago. Who thought up such an asinine day? Hallmark?

Who is asking for the 10 bucks?
__________________
.


Do not rely on the information provided--my posts are not to be taken as legal advice. Needless to say you must consult with your legal representative. I am not responsible for errors. If I offended you with cya I apologize. If I did not, I tried.
Martha is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 10:25 AM   #3
ronin
Recycles dryer sheets
 
ronin's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Posts: 446
The secretary. Probably sucking up for secretary's day. Maybe I should split the mugs, one each.
__________________

a surfer who hasn't wised up to the importance of hard shoes....
ronin is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 10:32 AM   #4
travelover
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
travelover's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 1,079
Now this is an occasion where "re-gifting" might be appropriate. Especially anything with a vendor logo.
__________________
Feral Engineer
travelover is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 11:02 AM   #5
Want2retire
Moderator
 
Want2retire's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: New Orleans
Posts: 6,414
Quote:
Originally Posted by ronin View Post
Are you kidding me? I got this memo that I'm supposed to kick in 10 bucks for ..... boss' day. I must have missed the announcement that there was such a thing. Sorry, but screw that. She can have 100% of everything I've ever gotten for "day of the teacher", which is about 2 coffee mugs over 20 years.
Don't give her $10!!! I agree with you. Re-gift the coffee mugs. Better just wrap one of them for a gift this year, and save one for next year...

Luckily, I don't get hit up for Boss's day since feds aren't supposed to give their bosses anything of much value. I have heartlessly refused to contribute to retirement gifts, though, or attend the $30/plate retirement luncheons in addition to the gifts, since I need that money for MY retirement. I figure that I am saving over $1000/year by being non-compliant on these matters. I sign the cards with eloquence and make a point of congratulating the retiree in person, so that will have to do!
__________________
Dreaming of retirement....305 days
" - - my greatest skill has been to want but little - - " (Henry David Thoreau, in Walden)
Want2retire is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 11:30 AM   #6
CuppaJoe
Moderator
 
CuppaJoe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Northern California
Posts: 2,403
You guys make my J*b look so good! Oh, the joys of a mini-company: I'm in charge (at my choice) of supplying the boss with a birthday card and replenishing the African violet in the expensive pot I gave him years ago. He gets a kick out of telling people I grow the violets from leaves. Cost over years: about $4.28/year. Is that frugal, cheap bastard or too much? This j*b is so hard to quit but I'm getting there.
CuppaJoe is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 11:35 AM   #7
Nords
Moderator Emeritus
 
Nords's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Oahu
Posts: 15,999
Quote:
Originally Posted by ronin View Post
Are you kidding me? I got this memo that I'm supposed to kick in 10 bucks for ..... boss' day. I must have missed the announcement that there was such a thing. Sorry, but screw that.
Gosh, until we ER'd I thought every day was Boss' Day!

You should forward this to the appropriate people:

"Gift Rage"
__________________
*
*
For more info see "About Me" in my profile.
Nords is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-05-2007, 12:06 PM   #8
HFWR
Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
Give me a forum ...
 
HFWR's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 5,486
What's wrong with Bruce Springsteen?
HFWR is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2007, 12:41 AM   #9
GoodSense
Recycles dryer sheets
 
GoodSense's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 361
I echo what W2R said. There are too many different kinds of collections or donations at work. Sometimes you just have to say no. Even if I contributed to a gift fund, the money would be used to buy something useless IMO (like ugly framed art or $10 mug). Why contribute to the habit of buying crap?

What do you say on Boss' Day? "Thank you for walking around all day and getting paid twice as much as I do. In case that's not enough money, here is a little money to subsidize your lifestyle."

[OK, that said, if you really like your boss, I guess it doesn't hurt to tell him Happy Boss Day. I just think $10 is way too excessive.]
GoodSense is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2007, 02:19 PM   #10
Goonie
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
Goonie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: North Central Illinois
Posts: 2,290
Last year we were all sitting around the table at lunch time, and one of the guys asked if we were giving the boss anything for 'Boss's Day'. In unison the rest of us said no. The guy thought we ought to give him something anyway. So I glanced at the others and said I'd take care of it.

When the boss came in the room to join us for lunch, I said "You know today is 'Boss's Day' and some thought we ought to give you something. So this is from all of us to you......and I gave him 'the bird'.

Fortunately he had a sense of humor....usually. He laughed about it.......knowing I was a "short-timer" and I'd soon be gone!!!
__________________
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss -
Retired April 2007 @ 50 with COLA'd DB Pension plus Lifetime Medical & Dental Insurance.
Goonie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2007, 02:22 PM   #11
Moemg
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Sarasota,fl.
Posts: 3,267
I worked at a very sociable place and we celebrated a lot .Birthdays ,baby showers ,weddings ,retirements ,etc.. It probably added up to be a chunk of money over the years but the friendships and niceness of the working enviroment were priceless .
Moemg is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2007, 02:34 PM   #12
Robert the Red
Recycles dryer sheets
 
Robert the Red's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 292
I'm a 'boss' (of 8 people) and don't expect anything. I'm barely aware of Boss's day. Why should they get me something? I make more than they do already. Instead, we have a custom that each person brings some food in on her/his birthday, and some other random time (yesterday I took in a a chocolate cake for no good reason). Works out.
Robert the Red is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-06-2007, 09:53 PM   #13
Khan
Moderator
 
Khan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Greater Dayton area
Posts: 3,411
Send a message via AIM to Khan
The year I was a 'boss', my underlings contractors gave me a card saying how wonderful I was.
__________________
"Candle wax and red wine can do interesting things to a keyboard."
Khan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 08:14 AM   #14
chinaco
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
chinaco's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,996
I did not know it existed... but hey, I like the idea! Bring me gifts.
__________________
Disclaimer: I make no warranty or guarantee about the accuracy or completeness of this information. I am not a financial planner, my comments only represent my opinion.

Last edited by chinaco; 10-07-2007 at 08:15 AM.. Reason: News to me
chinaco is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 08:24 AM   #15
chinaco
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
chinaco's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,996
Quote:
Originally Posted by Goonie View Post

When the boss came in the room to join us for lunch, I said "You know today is 'Boss's Day' and some thought we ought to give you something. So this is from all of us to you......and I gave him 'the bird'.

Alright Goonie your going to have to take a time out... I hate to be the one to break this to you... But you just broke the new code of conduct rule. No obscene jestures (images or symbols that might be interpreted a certain way)... you jester you.

But I think it is still OK for you to think it. There isn't a rule against that... Oops. I just broke the sarcasm rule again. Not to mention the getting off topic rule.


Gosh, I hope I used the right font size.
__________________
Disclaimer: I make no warranty or guarantee about the accuracy or completeness of this information. I am not a financial planner, my comments only represent my opinion.
chinaco is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 10:47 AM   #16
Nords
Moderator Emeritus
 
Nords's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Oahu
Posts: 15,999
Quote:
Originally Posted by chinaco View Post
Alright Goonie your going to have to take a time out... I hate to be the one to break this to you... But you just broke the new code of conduct rule. No obscene jestures (images or symbols that might be interpreted a certain way)... you jester you.
But I think it is still OK for you to think it. There isn't a rule against that... Oops. I just broke the sarcasm rule again. Not to mention the getting off topic rule.
Gosh, I hope I used the right font size.
If I were you I wouldn't worry about the moderators... I'd worry about being drafted to be a moderator!
__________________
*
*
For more info see "About Me" in my profile.
Nords is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 11:48 AM   #17
chinaco
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
chinaco's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,996
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nords View Post
If I were you I wouldn't worry about the moderators... I'd worry about being drafted to be a moderator!
No Thanks. Although, I do appreciate those who choose to serve.
__________________
Disclaimer: I make no warranty or guarantee about the accuracy or completeness of this information. I am not a financial planner, my comments only represent my opinion.
chinaco is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 12:34 PM   #18
mickeyd
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
mickeyd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: South Texas~29N/98W
Posts: 2,391
Back in the day when I had been on the job supervising about a dozen folks for about 2 months they presented me with a bosses day gift (have no idea what it was). I thanked them all and announced that I would be gifting them all something in the future and that will be the end of our gifting as long as I held the position.

I have never seen a happier group of folks.
__________________
Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. Groucho Marx
In dire need of: faster horses, younger woman, older whiskey, more money.
mickeyd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 10-07-2007, 12:49 PM   #19
maddythebeagle
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
 
maddythebeagle's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 2,443
A couple of my former coworkers would do something for "us" since they were in the same office as our boss (nothing big a card and cupcake or something)....I disagree with the sentiment on all of the "office collections"...We are in a small office of a larger organization and it has gotten out of hand....

The way that my boss has been acting the last couple of years, he is lucky not to be getting a smelly fish or the like hidden in his office as his "present"....

Last edited by maddythebeagle; 10-07-2007 at 12:54 PM..
maddythebeagle is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off