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Old 06-05-2014, 04:14 PM   #1
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Building Blocks of Happiness

Keeping with my "happy" theme today...(If a Dog Was The Teacher...)

Building Blocks of Happiness - all free!
  • Play
  • Having New Experiences
  • Friends & Family
  • Doing Things That Are Meaningful
  • Appreciating what we have

Extrinsic ("the hedonic treadmill")
  • Money
  • Image
  • Status
Intrinsic
  • Personal growth
  • Relationships
  • Desire to help

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Old 06-05-2014, 04:36 PM   #2
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Health, body and mind. I'd say it could be the 1st block.

"Don't worry, be happy."
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Old 06-05-2014, 04:51 PM   #3
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and all along I thought the basic building block of happiness was being retired...
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Old 06-05-2014, 05:02 PM   #4
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About this time last year, I was preparing to enter the hospital having my 1st major surgery. Just a short one year before that, as pessimistic as I had always been, I could not believe there was a strong chance I could die before the age of 60.

Happiness has been redefined in much simpler terms. Oh, I wanted to get back to the physical condition I had been. I would even go back to work.

I am not quite back to where I was, and never will be. But I may go for a few more years. Every day not suffering physically is a good day.
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Old 06-05-2014, 05:27 PM   #5
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The Happy documentary has some good food for thought. It has influenced our retirement planning. I watched it on Netflix. Nat Geo's Stress - Portrait of a Killer is also a good Netflix documentary relating to ER.
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Old 06-05-2014, 05:28 PM   #6
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About this time last year, I was preparing to enter the hospital having my 1st major surgery. Just a short one year before that, as pessimistic as I had always been, I could not believe there was a strong chance I could die before the age of 60.

Happiness has been redefined in much simpler terms. Oh, I wanted to get back to the physical condition I had been. I would even go back to work.

I am not quite back to where I was, and never will be. But I may go for a few more years. Every day not suffering physically is a good day.
We are glad you pulled through NW-Bound and are sharing your life lessons with us.

I never appreciated being able to just dance and go for walks until I hurt my heel and couldn't do either for awhile. That wasn't as serious as your situation, but still it was a good reminder to me to take care of my health as best I can and enjoy being able to do simple things.
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Old 06-05-2014, 05:42 PM   #7
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Thank you.

I thought I was healthy, never had any major illness in my life. At a previous annual exam, my doctor said that my blood test was the best he had seen in a while. Oh, I had some problems before, but never life threatening. I passed huge kidney stones at home, without the help of pain medication (I made a post a few years ago about it, and people wanted to see photo of the huge stone, so I posted it ).

No daily medication. Highest BMI was 25 (23.5 now). But that may not mean anything, though it certainly helped. There's a lot about our health that's either genetic or random. Still, my overall health lets me pull through.

I appreciate life and health much more now. Money is good, but it cannot buy health.
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Sorry, couldn't resist.

http://youtu.be/y6Sxv-sUYtM

EDIT: I can't figure out why it isn't showing the nice YouTube video box but just the boring URL...
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NW-bound, thanks
Not so easy to do this on a tablet:-)
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Old 06-06-2014, 01:22 PM   #10
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My building block for happiness :

health
good SO/families/relatives/friends
pleasant work env
financial security
house & neighborhood which feel like a "home"
hobbies (golf, music, movies, traveling, ....)
being able to recognize & appreciate good life when I am in one.
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