CuppaJoe
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The apt. bldg. maintenance staff.....
If you don't have kids, who's going to mow the grass when you are lazy?
The apt. bldg. maintenance staff.....
If you don't have kids, who's going to mow the grass when you are lazy?
Uh-oh. Here comes "rent versus own" now....The apt. bldg. maintenance staff.
Have been told I'm 'selfish' for not reproducing.
Many years ago, someone told me the same thing. Sometimes people choose to have children for selfish reasons. Sometimes people choose not to for unselfish reasons. Vice versa on both.
Oh, and some people think retiring early is selfish too:
http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f29/proposition-early-retirement-is-selfish-31851.html
Many years ago, someone told me the same thing. Sometimes people choose to have children for selfish reasons. Sometimes people choose not to for unselfish reasons. Vice versa on both.
Oh, and some people think retiring early is selfish too:
http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f29/proposition-early-retirement-is-selfish-31851.html
Oh yes. I have been condemned for being childfree & RE & not religious.
Not me, I have better ways to waste time. Besides, all I keep thinking about is the opening scenes from Idiocracy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopediaAny comments from the "quiverfull" crowd?
Although I am an unabashed and unashamed Christian, and although I know some folks "of the faith" think it's my responsibility to [-]whack the Bible over everyone's head[/-] "convert" or preach it from the rooftops to everyone else, I can't and won't do that. I will happily share with those who ask, with those who are exploring and curious, with those whom I know to be receptive to listening... but I cringe every time I see someone aggressively trying to put their religion on others whether they want it or not. I'm tired of putting up with the reputation that brings. Some of these people need to read a little more of the gospels and a little less on the Old Testament vengeance and judgmentalism.I have been treated indifferently (thankfully) for being an atheist.
Oh yes. I have been condemned for being childfree & RE & not religious.
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in labels and pigeonholing that we forget that just being a good person is vastly underrated.You offered to donate your bone marrow to someone you don't know, are in the 20 gallon club for blood donations and are kind to animals. The world could use more people like you.
Sometimes we get so wrapped up in labels and pigeonholing that we forget that just being a good person is vastly underrated.
Mmmm, hmmm..for years I've been asked when I'm going to have children. They just knew I'd change my mind. Finally the folks that know me realized I was not going to be a mom and the sad faces disappeared.Last Sunday at church, the conversation went something like this:
Gumby -- "Happy Father's Day, Chuck"
Chuck (the 30 something dad of two very nice young daughters) -- "Happy Fath . . . you two have kids right?"
Gumby -- "Nope"
Chuck -- "I'm sorry"
Gumby -- "I'm not"
It just sort of ended up that we never had any kids. When we first got married we assumed we would have them, but we never got around to it. I am happy with my life the way it is now and I'm pleased when others are happy with their own lives. Based on my observation, young Chuck is a great dad who enjoys his family immensely. He is precisely the sort of guy who should be a dad.
Here's my newest dog that found me on the road a month or so ago--her name is Biscuit and she looks, well, as best I can describe it, she's like a miniature Border Collie, even though no such thing exists. I've had suggestions of Pom and Papillon and some other guesses, but who knows. She's 14 lbs and adorable!
...A very small group — the most highly educated — is bucking that trend.
In 2008, 9% of women in the USA had a master's, doctorate or professional degree; of that group, 24% had not had children, down from 31% of the same group in 1994, the Pew analysis reports today.
"The most educated women are still the most likely to be childless," says report co-author D'Vera Cohn. "It's just that the rates have come down."