How I am wired might explain my reaction to catching my son goofing off at his new job.
My father was a guy who worked for the rail road for his entire life. He went to work with clean fingernails, shined shoes and a neatly pressed light blue shirt every day for 30 years. I know because I shined those shoes as a kid and received a few lectures about how to appear and behave. In retrospect I know he was a bit vain about his appearance. When he moved out things a home became stressful - my mom would would struggle to make ends meet. Although I didn't articulate it at the time I was on a mission to change things for myself.
My uniform is very deliberate -dress slacks a designer dress shirt (bought on the cheap) some 'casual' but neat shoes. I've seen some great workers suffer because they don't present the complete package. Poor communicators, a bad image (dress or look) negativity or worse the inability to sense a shift in the management wind. You know the type -they refuse to swim with the corporate current. You might think yeah I know this guys type a real tight ass. You'd be wrong I love to laugh and I'm an incessant teaser.
If you believe doing what you like, making a decent buck at and becoming independent defines success then I'm there. Education and hard work got me here... Much of the corporate game is perception - the truth is We just don't goof off or if we do we do so sparingly and discreetly. Sleeping in the parking lot when you should be pushing carts isn't very discreet. It certainly isn't a good start.
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My father was a guy who worked for the rail road for his entire life. He went to work with clean fingernails, shined shoes and a neatly pressed light blue shirt every day for 30 years. I know because I shined those shoes as a kid and received a few lectures about how to appear and behave. In retrospect I know he was a bit vain about his appearance. When he moved out things a home became stressful - my mom would would struggle to make ends meet. Although I didn't articulate it at the time I was on a mission to change things for myself.
My uniform is very deliberate -dress slacks a designer dress shirt (bought on the cheap) some 'casual' but neat shoes. I've seen some great workers suffer because they don't present the complete package. Poor communicators, a bad image (dress or look) negativity or worse the inability to sense a shift in the management wind. You know the type -they refuse to swim with the corporate current. You might think yeah I know this guys type a real tight ass. You'd be wrong I love to laugh and I'm an incessant teaser.
If you believe doing what you like, making a decent buck at and becoming independent defines success then I'm there. Education and hard work got me here... Much of the corporate game is perception - the truth is We just don't goof off or if we do we do so sparingly and discreetly. Sleeping in the parking lot when you should be pushing carts isn't very discreet. It certainly isn't a good start.
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