i just gave them my notice....

thefed · 09-18-2006, 09:56 AM

and my heart is a racin'

brewer12345 · 09-18-2006, 10:04 AM

An excting time, no doubt. What response did you get?

thefed · 09-18-2006, 10:11 AM

manager diappeared for the last 1/2 hr, in office with the owner. i just handed it to her in an envelope at 10:30

thefed · 09-18-2006, 10:54 AM

no reaction. stone cold poker faces....all of em 8) They must not be heartbroken. Neither am I. Glad we're all happy.

I can tell my manager is pissed, but she isnt showing it much...she normally wears her emotions on her sleeve.

Dawg54 · 09-18-2006, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by thefed

no reaction. stone cold poker faces....all* of em* 8) They must not be heartbroken.* Neither am I. Glad we're all happy.

I can tell my manager is pissed, but she isnt showing it much...she normally wears her emotions on her sleeve.

Most companies don't care, they are just interested in how it's gonna upset the normal work flow. If they really cared about you they would give you a pat on the back and wish you the best. But just think, in a few days you will be able to do whatever you want to do when you wake up in the mornings.*

TromboneAl · 09-18-2006, 11:02 AM

Well, if she needed a diaper, that tells you something!

brewer12345 · 09-18-2006, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by thefed

no reaction. stone cold poker faces....all* of em* 8) They must not be heartbroken.* Neither am I. Glad we're all happy.

I can tell my manager is pissed, but she isnt showing it much...she normally wears her emotions on her sleeve.

That's OK, as long as you are professional about leaving it is no harm, no foul. *When's the last day?

azanon · 09-18-2006, 11:40 AM

I can't blame you for leaving that job, if the conditions and relations there are so bad you don't even feel obligated to take 5 minutes or so of your time to tell the supervisor verbally first.

I do realize that in different parts of the US, maybe that would be an acceptable course of action. If you did that here in Arkansas, it would no doubt be taken as an insult. I guess upon reflecting about that, they'd probably act the same way back towards you too - cold as they could muster. Eye for an eye, so to speak.

Azanon

MasterBlaster · 09-18-2006, 11:50 AM

If and when I go..

I'll do the E-mail of resignation to give em' two weeks notice.

thefed · 09-18-2006, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Azanon

I can't blame you for leaving that job, if the conditions and relations there are so bad you don't even feel obligated to take 5 minutes or so of your time to tell the supervisor verbally first.

I do realize that in different parts of the US, maybe that would be an acceptable course of action. If you did that here in Arkansas, it would no doubt be taken as an insult. I guess upon reflecting about that, they'd probably act the same way back towards you too - cold as they could muster. Eye for an eye, so to speak.

Azanon

I never really thought a written notice needed to be preceded by a verbal warning. Although, ina converaation 2 weeks ago with my, I was very clear on my intentions if things didnt change fast...and they didnt. That particular conversation began with her ripping into me for not having a report done on time (had no electric in the building on the day of deadline due to the genius upstairs deciding to upgrade the system during the work day!!). It ended with her crying and apologizing...blamed it on the stress.

I was very professional in my letter, and will continue to be til my last dfay, which is SEPT 30, 2006 at 3:00 pm ( a dress-down day nonetheless!!)

Masterblaster :I was going to email it to them, but really wanted to hand it right to her.

thefed · 09-18-2006, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DOG52

Most companies don't care, they are just interested in how it's gonna upset the normal work flow. If they really cared about you they would give you a pat on the back and wish you the best. But just think, in a few days you will be able to do whatever you want to do when you wake up in the mornings.

I cant wait!! Unfortunately, i have my first 4 days of partial ER filled with...w*rk. But its my own work at my own pace. Then many projects around the house and rentals.

RE: how they dont normally care except for the disruption of the flow. Well, its going to be DISRUPTED. In this finance company with 11 mil on the books, I'm the ONLY one who knows how/can deal with the credit bureaus...big problem. Hoping someone wants to learn fast. It took me 3 months to get up to speed!

brewer12345 · 09-18-2006, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by thefed

RE: how they dont normally care except for the disruption of the flow.* Well, its going to be DISRUPTED. In this finance company with 11 mil on the books, I'm the ONLY one who knows how/can deal with the credit bureaus...big problem.* Hoping someone wants to learn fast. It took me 3 months to get up to speed!

thefed, if you play your cards right, there could be some lucrative hourly consulting business there for you.

FWIW, I don't think you did anything wrong/unprofessional in the way you resigned. They will have to get used to the way things are; nothing wrong with letting them see it in black & white.

sgeeeee · 09-18-2006, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Azanon

I can't blame you for leaving that job, if the conditions and relations there are so bad you don't even feel obligated to take 5 minutes or so of your time to tell the supervisor verbally first.

I do realize that in different parts of the US, maybe that would be an acceptable course of action.* If you did that here in Arkansas, it would no doubt be taken as an insult.* I guess upon reflecting about that, they'd probably act the same way back towards you too - cold as they could muster.* *Eye for an eye, so to speak.

Azanon

I think a lot of managers would prefer to get news like this via memo or email. It gives them a chance to process the information in private before they react. They can always initiate a conversation after they've read the resignation. And if they choose not to, then giving verbal notice would only have made them feel awkward.

**Rich_in_Tampa** · 09-18-2006, 12:41 PM

I've left positions from time to time in order to accept a better (for me) job elsewhere. I always did so in writing, but handed it to my "boss" personally during an appointment just for that purpose.

Even when I had some misgivings about his leadership style, I just took the approach that "it's been great here, thanks for your support, etc. This is just an exciting opportunity for me which I can't ignore, blah blah blah."

"Goes around comes around" has proven true to me on a few occasions.

donheff · 09-18-2006, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Rich_in_Tampa

I've left positions from time to time in order to accept a better (for me) job elsewhere. I always did so in writing, but handed it to my "boss" personally during an appointment just for that purpose.

Even when I had some misgivings about his leadership style, I just took the approach that "it's been great here, thanks for your support, etc. This is just an exciting opportunity for me which I can't ignore, blah blah blah."

"Goes around comes around" has proven true to me on a few occasions.

I agree wholeheartedly. I think Azanon has it right for most situations. If you just drop a resignation on the boss in an emal or a letter it could be viewed as insulting - "you didn't care enough to tell me you were retiring?"

But in this case, thefed had already had recently told the boss he was considering leaving due to working conditions. The tension was already in the air. A written resignation with no discussion was certainly not out of line. handed

flipstress · 09-18-2006, 12:49 PM

I've always delivered a letter to my boss to resign from a job. *It is more official and formal than a verbal notice or an email. *It is also private and less surprising as sgeeee said, giving the manager time to respond and get the plans going to cover the gap of my leaving.

In the letter, I usually just thank them for the support and learning I gained, and then say that I am moving on to pursue other opportunities.

Maybe this approach is more acceptable in big companies, but in smaller organizations where your boss is accessible/approachable and almost like a friend, then a verbal prelude would be almost expected by the boss.

I've had only few bosses that were like friends. Mostly, I've worked in bigger, more formal organizations.

sgeeeee · 09-18-2006, 12:58 PM

An "I quit" template I've used:

Quote:

To: supervisor’s name
cc: HR representative’s name
From: your name
Date: date of memo
Subject: Resignation
Dear supervisor’s name,
I am submitting my written notice of resignation from company’s name effective two weeks from today. My last day will be date of last day.
I am choosing (to retire and) pursue other interests at this time.
In my remaining time on the job, I will be happy to help train my replacement and do whatever is required to make a smooth transition.
I would like to thank you and company’s name for a rewarding and productive experience. I wish only the best for you -- and for the company.

Khan · 09-18-2006, 01:01 PM

When I was working at a restaurant, I wrote my resignation (2 weeks notice) on a napkin.

sgeeeee · 09-18-2006, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Khan

When I was working at a restaurant, I wrote my resignation (2 weeks notice) on a napkin.

Did the napkin at least have the restaurant's name and logo printed on it? At least then you could claim you thought it was stationary.

09-18-2006, 09:56 AM	#1
thefed Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,400	i just gave them my notice.... and my heart is a racin'

09-18-2006, 10:04 AM	#2
brewer12345 Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ... Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 9,226	Re: i just gave them my notice.... An excting time, no doubt. What response did you get? __________________ “When you realize that you are one of the rare few who observe moral principles in their relationships with others, there is a temptation to sink into amorality, not out of conviction or pleasure but simply to avoid further pain, because there is no greater suffering than being an angel in hell, whereas a devil feels at home wherever he goes.” – Martin Page, How I Became Stupid

09-18-2006, 10:11 AM	#3
thefed Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,400	Re: i just gave them my notice.... manager diappeared for the last 1/2 hr, in office with the owner. i just handed it to her in an envelope at 10:30

09-18-2006, 10:54 AM	#4
thefed Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,400	Re: i just gave them my notice.... no reaction. stone cold poker faces....all of em 8) They must not be heartbroken. Neither am I. Glad we're all happy. I can tell my manager is pissed, but she isnt showing it much...she normally wears her emotions on her sleeve.

09-18-2006, 11:02 AM	#6
TromboneAl Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,113	Re: i just gave them my notice.... Well, if she needed a diaper, that tells you something! __________________ - Al -- Always serious, never joking. No, wait. Never serious... Always... I forget.

09-18-2006, 11:40 AM	#8
azanon Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 1,505	Re: i just gave them my notice.... I can't blame you for leaving that job, if the conditions and relations there are so bad you don't even feel obligated to take 5 minutes or so of your time to tell the supervisor verbally first. I do realize that in different parts of the US, maybe that would be an acceptable course of action. If you did that here in Arkansas, it would no doubt be taken as an insult. I guess upon reflecting about that, they'd probably act the same way back towards you too - cold as they could muster. Eye for an eye, so to speak. Azanon

09-18-2006, 11:50 AM	#9
MasterBlaster Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 1,777	Re: i just gave them my notice.... If and when I go.. I'll do the E-mail of resignation to give em' two weeks notice.

09-18-2006, 12:41 PM	#14
Rich_in_Tampa Moderator Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Tampa Posts: 5,879	Re: i just gave them my notice.... I've left positions from time to time in order to accept a better (for me) job elsewhere. I always did so in writing, but handed it to my "boss" personally during an appointment just for that purpose. Even when I had some misgivings about his leadership style, I just took the approach that "it's been great here, thanks for your support, etc. This is just an exciting opportunity for me which I can't ignore, blah blah blah." "Goes around comes around" has proven true to me on a few occasions. __________________ Rich Tampa, FL (10% retired) As if you didn't know..If the above message happens to contain medical content, it's NOT intended as advice, and may not be accurate, applicable or sufficient. Don't rely on it for any medical purpose whatsoever. Consult your own doctor for all medical advice.

09-18-2006, 12:49 PM	#16
flipstress Full time employment: Posting here. Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 534	Re: i just gave them my notice.... I've always delivered a letter to my boss to resign from a job. It is more official and formal than a verbal notice or an email. It is also private and less surprising as sgeeee said, giving the manager time to respond and get the plans going to cover the gap of my leaving. In the letter, I usually just thank them for the support and learning I gained, and then say that I am moving on to pursue other opportunities. Maybe this approach is more acceptable in big companies, but in smaller organizations where your boss is accessible/approachable and almost like a friend, then a verbal prelude would be almost expected by the boss. I've had only few bosses that were like friends. Mostly, I've worked in bigger, more formal organizations.

09-18-2006, 01:01 PM	#18
Khan Thinks s/he gets paid by the post Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Greater Dayton area Posts: 3,072	Re: i just gave them my notice.... When I was working at a restaurant, I wrote my resignation (2 weeks notice) on a napkin. __________________ "Knowin' no one nowhere's gonna miss us when we're gone"