Originally Posted by jollystomper
Perhaps I'm strange but DW and both see more time with each other as a huge benefit. We have both common and separate hobbies, and common and separate friends, so its easy to spend time apart from each other... but we both enjoy the time we have together. We fortunate it that we're both fairly fit, like to be active, and easily entertain ourselves. Out health won't last forever but while it does we want to share that active time.
Yep, after 13 years of retirement, we still enjoy doing a lot of things together - and that was a major benefit of retiring.
But there are still lots of things we each do on our own.
Every couple is different.