Re. "the harder you press for specific details, the more you hear
what the prisoner wants you to hear", this didn't work with
either of my wives
. The more I pressed for specific details,
the more P.O.ed they became and the more confused I got.
(Mars -Venus?) An aside siince this is a blatant hijack. I was purusing
a book in a resale shop "100 most asked questions on male-
female relations" or something like that. Written by a PHD
advice columnist. Well, what to my wondering eyes should appear
but a chapter on how millions of women expect men to know what they want/need to be happy/satisfied/secure, without ever being told.
Like, "If you really loved me you would just know!" Having lots of experience with females (some good, some traumatic) I read on.....
The author opined that this is nonsense. Men are not women
and these women should be happy that the husband or SO
cares enough to ask for specifics in order to better please the female.
So, I am not really an unromantic lout after all. I've just been
thrust in a BIZARRO WORLD filled with wacky women. And,
what does this have to do with torture you ask? Consult any husband. Therein lies the answer. BTW, the author of the book was
female, and no, I did not buy it so I could say "Hey, Look at this.
I've been right all along!". Me saying "I've been right all along" is like
GWD saying "Everyone thought there were WMDs." No one wants to hear it anymore.
JG