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Old 03-14-2013, 09:14 AM   #21
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Your right, its always tough to lose a parent, but since she is no longer in pain after having lived a long and healthy life, it can be a blessing.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:15 AM   #22
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It is good to live to the late eighties or early nineties without a long illness; still, it is hard to accept the loss of a mother or father. I am going through the same thing with my mother, soon to be 88.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:35 AM   #23
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Dawg,
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Thanks for sharing the information.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:40 AM   #24
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My condolences on your loss. My Mom died 35 years ago and I still frequently think of her. If we are lucky and had good parents then we have some good times to remember.
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:45 AM   #25
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my sincere condolences
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:53 AM   #26
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Dawg, my mom died at the end of January at age 93. I know how hard this is - I am still numb from it. She had suffered a small stroke two weeks before she died and I can honestly say I am grateful she didn't suffer and linger longer. I miss her every day or every minute and it's thrown my life into a tailspin.

Im glad you had a good one - I did too!
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Old 03-14-2013, 09:54 AM   #27
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Sorry for your loss, Dawg. Glad to hear she lived a good, long, fulfilling life. She'll always be with you, in spirit.
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Old 03-14-2013, 10:21 AM   #28
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My sincere condolences Dawg. May time heal your heart.....
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Old 03-14-2013, 10:33 AM   #29
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I would like to offer my condolences. I know you were very close to your mom and I am saddened to hear of her passing.
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Old 03-14-2013, 10:51 AM   #30
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Dawg, I am so sorry . Your Mother must have been an amazing person, and you are a very fine son. My thoughts are with you.

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Old 03-14-2013, 11:05 AM   #31
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Dawg, I always enjoyed your posts about your mom.

So sorry for your loss.
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I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I heard on the radio today that "love conquers grief". I believe that. She'll always be with you.
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I am so very sorry for your loss.

It is very hard to lose one's mother. Please cherish the memories, wisdom, and caring she's given you through the years.
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Dawg, sorry to hear of your loss.
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Sorry for your loss, Dawg.

When I lost my mom a friend of mine put it to me this way: 'When you lose your mother its like the universe changes. You adjust, but you never really get used to it'

Here's hoping you adjust as quickly and painlessly as possible.
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Sorry for your loss. Take care.
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My condolences, she must have truly remarkable.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, Dawg. I'm sure that you are her finest legacy. Take care.
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Sorry to hear about your loss. You were a wonderful son to a wonderful mom. May your memories sustain you through this difficult time.
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I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother.
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