chinaco
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Sorry lakewood. It is sad. I can relate to it... we had to deal with it too.
The in-home care is actually a good idea (IMO). But you have to know your limits. You may not be able (or even willing) to do the late stages care (it would be very stressful).
If you do not understand the progression. Go to a NH that provides Dementia care and talk to them. They will tell you. Make sure you understand so you can build plans around it.
You may have already figured some of this out... but just in case you have not.
You should create a planned future that has alternative options (backup plans). Do the background research well ahead of needing to use it. Otherwise, you could find yourself in crisis mode.
If he can still do the ADL stuff.... consider hiring in-home care from a Home health care service... it may be a good solution for a while. Another option is Adult Day care (it works). But the Adult day care will have their limitations. They are often not willing to do a lot of hands on help.
That way you can take the needed time to do the search for an adequate facility. One thing I would advise against is not being proactive.
Even if you think you will continue doing the care at home... identify a facility and get on the list as a backup plan!!!!
The way the NH system works.... the place you want may not have an opening when you need it. Find one and get on the list! Ultimately, they will call you one day (probably without too much warning)... you will have to make a decision. If it is not time yet... you can always slide down on the list.
The in-home care is actually a good idea (IMO). But you have to know your limits. You may not be able (or even willing) to do the late stages care (it would be very stressful).
If you do not understand the progression. Go to a NH that provides Dementia care and talk to them. They will tell you. Make sure you understand so you can build plans around it.
You may have already figured some of this out... but just in case you have not.
You should create a planned future that has alternative options (backup plans). Do the background research well ahead of needing to use it. Otherwise, you could find yourself in crisis mode.
If he can still do the ADL stuff.... consider hiring in-home care from a Home health care service... it may be a good solution for a while. Another option is Adult Day care (it works). But the Adult day care will have their limitations. They are often not willing to do a lot of hands on help.
That way you can take the needed time to do the search for an adequate facility. One thing I would advise against is not being proactive.
Even if you think you will continue doing the care at home... identify a facility and get on the list as a backup plan!!!!
The way the NH system works.... the place you want may not have an opening when you need it. Find one and get on the list! Ultimately, they will call you one day (probably without too much warning)... you will have to make a decision. If it is not time yet... you can always slide down on the list.
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