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Rest in peace Isabella
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It surely sounds as if she has been resting undisturbed for five years.
HM, you give those of us who love the idea of independence an opening here, on this 5th of July.
Here’s a newspaper comment on the article, reminds me of Robert Frost’s “good fences make good neighbors”:
To be honest, she might have been the kind of person who was very independent and didn't like people poking their noses into her business. There's an upside and downside to being independent: this is the downside. Personally, I hate neighbours who take on the role of 'minder' since it so easily gets out of hand and ends up almost like stalking. Good neighbours know when to stop but many don't.
- Barbara, London, 03/7/2009 18:41
I’m a little amazed at the logistics of this, a lady in her mid-’80s went all online for finances! Complete automation still eludes me, I cannot do it at all for my rent. My apt. bldg. is yet again on the market, even if I could make automatic payments, there would be new forms to fill out with a new owner.
And her mail just got slipped into her apt., my mailbox would overflow in a week and eventually the post office would do something about it(?) I’ve seem mail bundled up and dropped in the lobby; everyone in the bldg. knew that the box holder was working overseas or had moved.
Some of us might say, that way of dying is just fine, the horror of it comes to those left behind to pick up the pieces. There is a statistic in the city where I live that that is how it goes, many people live alone and die alone. Much preferable to spending one’s last days in a nursing home, surrounded by people who want you to participate in group activities, and/or surrounded by those who think it their duty to be at your side?