Run like the wind! Don't look back!
You're young, there are too many incompatibilities on too many levels, and now is the best time to start the rest of your life! Set goals that are important to you, and then strive to achieve them. In my experience, things that are meant to be fall into place, and things that aren't meant to be fall by the wayside.
The first time I was engaged, we were very much in love. However, we were young, and our dreams and aspirations were worlds apart. Because of our love it was
very hard to do, but we finally parted ways. She has a career and a happy family, and she's totally content with her life! Had we stayed together we would have been miserable, and most likely divorced.
Twenty years later, I got engaged again, and discovered, in the nick of time, that we were definitely not compatible. We were both in our early 40's, had enjoyed our individual lives up to that point, but she had far different ideas and views on money. I liked to save and invest
some money for the future, but she liked to spend it like there was no tomorrow. I was by no means "cheap" or a "tight-wad", I've always enjoyed nice restaurants and nice clothes & 'stuff'. But for or her, saving money meant dropping her lose change into the ashtray on the counter! There were many more incompatibilities than just that, but that was the 'biggy'. She's still living 'paycheck to paycheck', and on those 'paycheck cash-advance' outfits.....and she's eternally indentured to 'Rent-A-Center' for her furniture, appliances, and other 'stuff'. Sorry, but I could
NEVER live like that!
I'm living the FIRE'd life spending some, saving some, and living happy, free, and wild!
In my own experience and in the experiences of many of those that I've talked with, in a relationship if the 2 people aren't on the same page when it comes to money, it ain't gonna be pretty! A couple of things I've gleaned over the years: #1 - If you're not married to your partner....don't intermingle your money....keep it separate....share expenses, but not 'bank accounts'! #2 - Pre-nuptials.....because then everything is in 'black & white' and there will be far less room for misunderstanding!
Just my opinions....YMMV!