Haven't done gifts for 10 years since they usually ended up being things we only thought the other person wanted (but didn't buy themselves because they didn't think the item was "worth it"). Now we spend the money on better food and wine for dinner parties.
"For the time being no discipline brings joy, but seems grievous and painful; but afterwards it yields a peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." ~
ER'd in June 2015 at age 52. Initial WR 3%. 50/40/10 (Equity/Bond/Short Term) AA.