To be honest, they were a "step and fetchit" team. They only moved their asses when I came to visit. The hospital was basically a place to park her.
As for the staff, they get paid anyhow, some were good, some not, but I had the feeling they weren't really trying so hard, just sort of going through the motions and letting the bill tally up, so yes, perhaps I'm a bit pissed.
So I trust no one. This is basically a system I'm dealing with, so sometimes you have to learn to play along with the game, or the curve balls. So I do not apologize for my behavior.
If the medical care is good, then I pay, if not, or if you play games with me, then I play back. There is much crap going on in this field, much fraud. Once you deal with elderly parents, and I have three of them, you have to be tough in order not to get screwed.
I don't even justify being a so called deadbeat when it comes to some bills, it's just my way with dealing with an inept and corrupt system. Every elder lawyer and financial planner knows how to get the government to pay for elder care and conserve some wealth, why am I different. If they were so "righteous" then the right thing to do would be to tell their clients that the government should not be responsible for your parents long term care until they are "really" spent down.
Two people I try to stay away from, lawyers and financial planners. They should all be sent to Mexico in exchange for people who do productive work.
Ha, proper channels, been there, done that. The channels when in the fog of the elder care tango are all clogged up, unhearing, uncaring, and very illogical. From my experience, there is an epidemic of deafness in the corporate world, so they make you do the bureaucratic shuffle. I'm sick of learning new dances, so I let them do some shuffling.
So, to sum up, you don’t like Doctors, hospitals, Lawyers, financial planners, nursing homes or their staff, social workers, the corporations or government bureaucrats. You do, however, appear to like Mexicans. You want people to provide you with services because they want to, not just because they “clock in” every day. Otherwise they are on a gravy train. You don’t pay for services you’ve received when you don’t like the attitudes of the service providers. You can pay but don’t, but you’re not a deadbeat.I can pay the bill in full tomorrow, but I have the sense that I've been taken. Some doctors love their patients at all costs, but there are some who come to hospital to "clock in, poke around" fill out the paper and go home to rest up for the next day on the gravy train. You just have to sort out who is who.
Clearly your indignation is well founded. Righteous attitudes are like that.Perhaps I'm angry because I'm criticized over some bills I just don't want to pay. It's the attack, and the righteous attitudes that get me.
Ever thought about moving? Montana, Wyoming, or SW Ohio. Lots of similar-thinking folk. One novel thought - try Mexico. You seem to like Mexicans. You’ll find lots of what you’re looking for there. Not much of a gravy train. No medicare issues to deal with. No nursing homes to get your undies in a bunch over. Lawyers, financial planners – way less. Government trying to tell you how to live your life – not gonna happen. Hospital bills are much lower. One drawback – they take bill paying a bit more seriously there. Don’t pay your hospital bill and you soon be a new patient.
Anyway, good luck next time you or your parents need medical care.
note - edited to include social workers