A friend at work my age (mid fifties) seemed to be depressed and had lost a lot of weight. He confided in me. His wife of over 25 years had announced she wanted a divorce. I was stunned. I knew him better than his wife of course, but they always seemed to be happy. They raised three kids in a stable loving home (the youngest has recently moved out like her older siblings).
He does not want the marriage to end. And their doesn't seem to be any specific reason except "she is unhappy".
It has been six months since she stated she wanted out. She now lives a separate life, sleeps in a different bedroom but in the same house. It is an arrangement that cannot go on forever and soon they will have to make the decision of how to divide assets and move to separate homes (unless of course they reconcile)
I have read articles that there seems to be a trend in grey divorce. I can read the statistics but what I am most interested in is to get a feel for how many people who initiate and go through with a grey divorce, regret the decision later.
Are these people generally happier with the life they have chosen leaving a long term marriage? Or is there a significant number that look back with regret?
I've been married over 25 years myself. My husband and I are still happy and committed.
Can anybody give me insight?
He does not want the marriage to end. And their doesn't seem to be any specific reason except "she is unhappy".
It has been six months since she stated she wanted out. She now lives a separate life, sleeps in a different bedroom but in the same house. It is an arrangement that cannot go on forever and soon they will have to make the decision of how to divide assets and move to separate homes (unless of course they reconcile)
I have read articles that there seems to be a trend in grey divorce. I can read the statistics but what I am most interested in is to get a feel for how many people who initiate and go through with a grey divorce, regret the decision later.
Are these people generally happier with the life they have chosen leaving a long term marriage? Or is there a significant number that look back with regret?
I've been married over 25 years myself. My husband and I are still happy and committed.
Can anybody give me insight?