Midpack
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Now that I've been retired almost 1½ years, I think I can conclude something that's come as a surprise.
I wouldn't allow myself to become close friends with any of my co-workers, but like everyone I certainly had real "work friends" over the years. People who voluntarily shared intimate financial, marital, family and other problems with me (and few others at work) seeking advice, a sounding board or just someone to listen - in addition to professional issues.
Didn't really have any expectations on keeping in touch, and the last thing I want to talk about these days is the details of everyday life at former Megacorp. But how some have/not kept in touch has been partly a surprise. Some of the people I assumed might keep in touch, did not, that I knew was inevitable from many prior relocations. More surprising are the people I was not as close with, who I never expected to hear from again, who have actively kept in touch. I realize some of them are just networking, but some have been surprisingly genuine. Just never occured to me how different work relationships would grow or die off after I retired.
Not a big deal either way, just a curiousity and another of life's interesting mysteries.
Wondered if others have been surprised in this respect? Maybe it's just me...
I wouldn't allow myself to become close friends with any of my co-workers, but like everyone I certainly had real "work friends" over the years. People who voluntarily shared intimate financial, marital, family and other problems with me (and few others at work) seeking advice, a sounding board or just someone to listen - in addition to professional issues.
Didn't really have any expectations on keeping in touch, and the last thing I want to talk about these days is the details of everyday life at former Megacorp. But how some have/not kept in touch has been partly a surprise. Some of the people I assumed might keep in touch, did not, that I knew was inevitable from many prior relocations. More surprising are the people I was not as close with, who I never expected to hear from again, who have actively kept in touch. I realize some of them are just networking, but some have been surprisingly genuine. Just never occured to me how different work relationships would grow or die off after I retired.
Not a big deal either way, just a curiousity and another of life's interesting mysteries.
Wondered if others have been surprised in this respect? Maybe it's just me...