Major Tom
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Yes it is!Not true!
Yes it is!Not true!
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Today, with most of our neighbors and friends in the early seventies up to those who are older than 100, age has leveled the playing field, and almost no one is willing to take on hot issues.
"I already paid..."If you want an argument you have to pay first.
Not true!
This is not an argument - this is contradiction. I paid for an argument!No way that is right!
This is not an argument - this is contradiction. I paid for an argument!
I am curious about something. We like to think we grow wiser with age, and often this does appear true in life (though not always). Since everyone in your community is old, do you notice that the oldest ones are also the wisest? Is someone who's 100, noticeably wiser than someone who's 80?
I am not trying to be funny with this question. I really am curious.
You would be delighted to meet most of the residents.. laid back, but with amazing breadth of people-sense and willingness to listen and share.
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I was very outspoken in my 20s, arguing with anyone who would take me on. Age has tempered that a lot, and I tend to be more live-and-let-live these days. I can say that I now avoid most of the blowhards we know, figuring that life is too short to listen to their vitriol. This has the unfortunate effect of keeping me in a bit more of a bubble, wherein I spend most of my time with people who "think like me", which isn't ideal.
I figure that it is incredibly hard to sway someone's opinions and beliefs, so I don't really have those conversations very much. The one exception is my boss, whose beliefs veer off to one side of mine, and who I enjoy poking with a stick every now and again to get his take on a given news item or recent research. Those conversations are civil, and usually end with us meeting in the middle.
I suspect some people are not happy unless they can argue about whatever.
Not true!
Yes it is!
No way that is right!
I can almost always find something that I agree with my companion of the moment on. I steer toward that and leave well enough alone.
(libertarian agnostic with admiration for judeo-christian religions (and the religious) and their overall beneficial impact on western civilization both today and historically; if I search for it, I can always find ways to antagonize, or not, just about anyone!)
Some of my friends are pretty simple....You may have to spend the first 10 minutes explaining the words "Libertarian" and "agnostic" before you could even begin the debate.
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I felt like an outcast through much of my youth--misunderstood at home; bullied at school. I developed a strong ability to do my own thing despite opposition, and it paid off for me. I entered adulthood confident in my own skills, ability to learn, and ability to thrive at whatever I decided to do. How do I handle difference? I'm tolerant of others because I know I won't be likely to change them, certainly not by arguing. And I very often simply pull back from a person or people whose differences are so grating or so disturbing and just go about living my own life. Ultimately we are in control of who we want to associate with.
I try hard to live by a very simple rule these days: MYOFB. I don't always succeed, but since more and more it seems like nobody even wants to have an open debate (they just want to mark their position and not listen to the other side) engaging seems like a waste of time and effort these days.