Companionless is probably better. Kind of stuck. . .feeling shut out! There's no local ER chapter or club to chill with like minded female ER types. Dating websites / speed dating are ok, but don't do a great of matching people by financial philosophy.
A successful PT poster in a past thread mentioned the unhelpfully high expectations couple wannabees set for partners for themselves, i.e they've got to have this, and that, and oh yeah: 'a job', preferably in a rising career! In many western cultures, you're defined by what you do. You are-- 'your job' In your 20's / 30's it matters little, with so many people traveling, studying etc.
However in your 40's / 50's and beyond you can be labeled by the average dating prospect as an oddbawl! I mean after all, what demographics do ER types make up? One in a hundred, one in a thousand? I'd be curious to see some statistics.
Obviously bonus points for smart one liner responses to 'what do you do'-- aside. Does anyway have some useful tales of what worked / works for them? I've been so goal oriented, focused, LBYM and frugal for so long, i've unwittingly isolated myself from the mainstream-- oops! So I'm a little rusty getting 'out there'! (need to rediscover my old sense of humor)
Similarly, I'm curious about companionless PTers, those moving around a lot, perhaps in cultures where language is a barrier? They say love means there are no language barriers. But seriously, doesn't it get a little lonely? Travel and sharing and ER/PT go hand in hand I feel! Any thoughts appreciated . . .
A successful PT poster in a past thread mentioned the unhelpfully high expectations couple wannabees set for partners for themselves, i.e they've got to have this, and that, and oh yeah: 'a job', preferably in a rising career! In many western cultures, you're defined by what you do. You are-- 'your job' In your 20's / 30's it matters little, with so many people traveling, studying etc.
However in your 40's / 50's and beyond you can be labeled by the average dating prospect as an oddbawl! I mean after all, what demographics do ER types make up? One in a hundred, one in a thousand? I'd be curious to see some statistics.
Obviously bonus points for smart one liner responses to 'what do you do'-- aside. Does anyway have some useful tales of what worked / works for them? I've been so goal oriented, focused, LBYM and frugal for so long, i've unwittingly isolated myself from the mainstream-- oops! So I'm a little rusty getting 'out there'! (need to rediscover my old sense of humor)
Similarly, I'm curious about companionless PTers, those moving around a lot, perhaps in cultures where language is a barrier? They say love means there are no language barriers. But seriously, doesn't it get a little lonely? Travel and sharing and ER/PT go hand in hand I feel! Any thoughts appreciated . . .