My father-in-law told me they were both in their 80s. He was an engineer that still worked part time. Their little brick home of perhaps 50 years, next to my in-laws, seemed to suit them as she and he were barely 5 feet tall. It was hard to fathom the insane prices those little houses commanded in that 'prestigious' Long Island school district. My Father-in-law, Ron, a Florida guy himself said the engineer desperately wanted to move to Florida to be near the kids. She wouldn't budge. I helped them one time remove a wire tree support in front of their house. They seemed very nice.
Then one day I learned they moved to Florida but apparently didn't sell. In no time at all they were back. Ron said she wasn't happy there and demanded they return. Shortly thereafter she was alone. I would see her walking to the market - this tiny old woman with a shopping cart. I'll always wonder what it was about Florida that she didn't like? And if he was sad to come back, albeit briefly. I always thought it seemed a bit of a tragedy. A cocky me thought I won't be chained to a neighborhood.
I am ready to start a new adventure but my son will be a freshman in college and I don't want to be too far. My daughter will be here starting her first job and graduate school. An old me says I think I'll make the most of wherever I am.. she won't budge for a year or so but we will see.
I have to smile when I think of the things we were so sure of...
Then one day I learned they moved to Florida but apparently didn't sell. In no time at all they were back. Ron said she wasn't happy there and demanded they return. Shortly thereafter she was alone. I would see her walking to the market - this tiny old woman with a shopping cart. I'll always wonder what it was about Florida that she didn't like? And if he was sad to come back, albeit briefly. I always thought it seemed a bit of a tragedy. A cocky me thought I won't be chained to a neighborhood.
I am ready to start a new adventure but my son will be a freshman in college and I don't want to be too far. My daughter will be here starting her first job and graduate school. An old me says I think I'll make the most of wherever I am.. she won't budge for a year or so but we will see.
I have to smile when I think of the things we were so sure of...
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