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06-20-2014, 06:45 AM
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The Tyranny of Choice
This is a long read that may be interesting to some.
As I read the article, I found myself mentally comparing today to earlier times in my life, and realizing that not all change is positive. It makes me realize how much more difficult it must be for younger people to make decisions.
How Americans Are Tyrannized By Too Much Choice | Alternet
This partial quote makes the point.
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...the problem stretches from the supermarket, with its average of 42,686 different items from which to prepare tonight’s dinner and care for the home...
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While the piece becomes quite technical, the main theme makes sense to me, and I feel a little better about dealing with the challenges of the future. Understanding that choices may be artificial could, and I hope can, lead to a reduction in stress.
Life is good, but it can always be better.
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06-20-2014, 07:02 AM
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I believe that there were several TeD talks on this that you can see over at TED: Ideas worth spreading. They have both the videos and the transcripts available.
To avoid inundating you with choices, the talks by Barry Schwartz and Malcom Gladwell come to mind.
-gauss
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06-20-2014, 07:06 AM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
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Every time going to the store to pick out my favorite toothpaste this comes to mind. The chore is like finding the needle in the haystack of different brands.
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06-20-2014, 09:06 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by gauss
I believe that there were several TeD talks on this that you can see over at TED: Ideas worth spreading. They have both the videos and the transcripts available.
To avoid inundating you with choices, the talks by Barry Schwartz and Malcom Gladwell come to mind.
-gauss
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Thank you!
Her's a very worthwhile link to the Schwartz video (19 minutes)
Barry Schwartz: The paradox of choice | Talk Video | TED.com
Funny, and direct... Interesting part about the Vanguard Funds and choices for 401K investments.
Also... the psychology of why we become confident in our own choices, even when they are wrong, or why we feel "at fault" in the same situation.
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06-20-2014, 09:19 AM
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I have always regarded indecisiveness to be a character flaw. I blame my upbringing!
Generally I have zero difficulty in making a decision, once I have adequate information upon which to base it. That takes some digging, sometimes.
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06-20-2014, 09:30 AM
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This is the answer when someone asks "what exactly is a first world problem"
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...the problem stretches from the supermarket, with its average of 42,686 different items from which to prepare tonight’s dinner and care for the home...
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06-20-2014, 09:40 AM
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Nature or nurture? Is it a character flaw or genetic trait? I can't decide...
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06-20-2014, 10:54 AM
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Many's the time I've returned from store with some funky flavored toothpaste, trisquits, etc because I failed to realize all the variations. Generally we favor the originals. You know, plain ol Colgate toothpaste or "original' Trisquits. Someone needs to take these marketing department folks out and shoot them.
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06-20-2014, 11:05 AM
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Had a friend visiting from Eastern Europe a while back.
We went to a restaurant and, it was: "soup or salad?", "Caesar, house or spinach?", "blue cheese, Italian, or Ranch?"...I forget the next option for the salad, but my friend was clearly exasperated with the number of options and choices! He had kind of reached a "just give me a damn salad!" point.
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06-20-2014, 12:16 PM
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Easily corrected.
1) read "Dietary Guidelines for America 2010"
http://www.health.gov/dietaryguideli...elines2010.pdf
2) Shop to fit meals to the guidelines, particularly the daily sodium intake of 1,500 mg for all persons 51 and older, and those of any age who are African American or have hypertension, diabetes, or chronic kidney disease.
This will weed out all those frozen prepared foods, the snack aisle, most breads, salted butter and substitutes, canned soups and sauces, salad dressings, etc. You'll be left with the produce section, and part of the butcher's (excepting brined poultry and pork, sausages, cheeses and such).
You may also have to make some changes at home, becoming familiar with that big non-microwave cooking thingie in the kitchen...
And people wonder what we do all day...
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06-20-2014, 02:16 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by marko
Had a friend visiting from Eastern Europe a while back.
We went to a restaurant and, it was: "soup or salad?", "Caesar, house or spinach?", "blue cheese, Italian, or Ranch?"...I forget the next option for the salad, but my friend was clearly exasperated with the number of options and choices! He had kind of reached a "just give me a damn salad!" point.
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I completely agree with your friend. The only thing worse is listening to some people order their own variations and quiz the wait staff and ask for even more individualization of their orders.
Maybe the marketers are just trying to anticipate the equivalent of the "Hold the onions, cook the bacon extra crispy, make the cheese lowfat, and put the salsa on the side."
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06-20-2014, 02:37 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Bestwifeever
I completely agree with your friend. The only thing worse is listening to some people order their own variations and quiz the wait staff and ask for even more individualization of their orders.
Maybe the marketers are just trying to anticipate the equivalent of the "Hold the onions, cook the bacon extra crispy, make the cheese lowfat, and put the salsa on the side."
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I could throttle those people!
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06-20-2014, 03:06 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by imoldernu
This is a long read that may be interesting to some.
As I read the article, I found myself mentally comparing today to earlier times in my life, and realizing that not all change is positive. It makes me realize how much more difficult it must be for younger people to make decisions.
How Americans Are Tyrannized By Too Much Choice | Alternet
This partial quote makes the point.
While the piece becomes quite technical, the main theme makes sense to me, and I feel a little better about dealing with the challenges of the future. Understanding that choices may be artificial could, and I hope can, lead to a reduction in stress.
Life is good, but it can always be better.
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Alternate viewpoint is "Life is good, be careful not to screw it up".
Is there anyone here who is troubled by any of this? I have spent my life in America, where there is plenty of everything, and in recent years an abundance of choices. As far as I can see, neither I nor my parents nor my sibs nor my friends and acquaintances has every been anything but happy about this. Try a truly third world experience some time, especially if your job or roles puts you into contact with locals who are not trying to please you. Most of them would welcome some of this stressful choice you talk about.
Ha
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06-20-2014, 03:07 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by marko
Had a friend visiting from Eastern Europe a while back.
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I went to an outdoor café in Sofia, Bulgaria back before the Berlin Wall came down. Got a seat and looked at the menu. Lots and lots of items on the menu, but everyone around me was eating one thing: a kind of purple ice cream. When the waiter finally(!) came to take our order, I asked for chocolate ice cream. "We don't have chocolate today."
"Strawberry?"
"We don't have strawberry today" came the answer through lips pursed around a cigarette.
"Vanilla?"
"Not today."
"Well, what do you have?"
"Grape."
It was the absolute worst ice cream I have had in my life. We ate only a small taste and left the rest.
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06-20-2014, 03:49 PM
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I did some natural gas work in Trinidad a few years ago and we were out in a small town somewhere remote. Stopped in a small cafe and all they had on the menu was chicken sandwiches. So we ordered and the chicken was not boned. I asked if they had chicken without bones and the answer was no.
We are spoiled in the U.S.
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06-20-2014, 04:05 PM
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My number one reason for not going to starbucks (or similar): I can't order a coffee
Tried once .. blank stare in return from the barista. Ordered a cookie instead, only three kinds available.
Yes we are spoiled.
I sometimes go to the supermarket and just marvel at the choice I have and examine all the items and varieties of food I never bought in my life. Some of it I don't even understand what it is.
Then I walk to the register and look at the lady in front of me and the guy behind me in line. Usually none of my items overlap with any of theirs!
It's like people are living parallel lives and visiting a completely different supermarkt than I am. It's a miracle.
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06-20-2014, 06:00 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LOL!
I went to an outdoor café in Sofia, Bulgaria back before the Berlin Wall came down. Got a seat and looked at the menu. Lots and lots of items on the menu, but everyone around me was eating one thing: a kind of purple ice cream. When the waiter finally(!) came to take our order, I asked for chocolate ice cream. "We don't have chocolate today."
"Strawberry?"
"We don't have strawberry today" came the answer through lips pursed around a cigarette.
"Vanilla?"
"Not today."
"Well, what do you have?"
"Grape."
It was the absolute worst ice cream I have had in my life. We ate only a small taste and left the rest.
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My Pop always enjoyed vanilla ice cream, one day I ask him why don't you eat chocolate? Turns out back in the day, chocolate is what you added to vanilla ice cream to cover up the fact that it is stale.
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06-20-2014, 06:12 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by springnr
My Pop always enjoyed vanilla ice cream, one day I ask him why don't you eat chocolate? Turns out back in the day, chocolate is what you added to vanilla ice cream to cover up the fact that it is stale.
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On that same subject, I once worked with a guy who was a former quality control technician in a dairy processing plant. "Don't drink the chocolate milk" was one of his favorite sayings...
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06-20-2014, 06:53 PM
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I just glanced at my bookshelf to see that my copy of The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz was still there.
I do not agonize over choices of products, but then I am fairly easy. Sometimes too easy, even on big items like a new SUV which I should have spent more time to see other choices available on the market. I do not like to do shopping.
Quote:
Originally Posted by aja8888
I did some natural gas work in Trinidad a few years ago and we were out in a small town somewhere remote. Stopped in a small cafe and all they had on the menu was chicken sandwiches. So we ordered and the chicken was not boned. I asked if they had chicken without bones and the answer was no.
We are spoiled in the U.S.
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Are you supposed to bite into the sandwich carefully, chew then spit the bones out?
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06-20-2014, 07:02 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by NW-Bound
Are you supposed to bite into the sandwich carefully, chew then spit the bones out?
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Yes, that was the game plan, but what you really do is take off the bread and pick out as many bones as you can find, then proceed carefully.
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