His addiction to PC games has been the source of worry for the wife and I. He's woken me on several occasions screaming at 1AM while involved in some virtual battle with some other kids scattered about the country. We told him to go and get a job which, surprisingly he did. A super market - it took weeks before he actually started. His first day was 4 hours chasing carts. His second day 4 hours bagging plus two hours overtime.
Me: "So you got a lot of hours in for your first week?"
Son: "Yeah but I have no real need for money"
Me: "wouldn't it be nice to have spending money in college"
Son: "yeah I guess I've made $200 already"
The next week brought two full days (8hrs) cashier training. "I don't want to be a cashier" He came home after the first full day and I asked him how his day went "that was unpleasant".
The second day "we all passed - all you have to do is know the produce... I'm not good at apples yet." I guess the cashier job wasn't do bad after all.
We are overjoyed that he's out of the house, off the computer and being forced to socialize. Don't get me wrong he's neither wallflower nor a geek but kids today are different and getting out and about is a good thing.
He told me he "hates the carts" and "I don't know how the full timers do it - 8 hours on their feet?" Success! I want him to see that money is hard earned and manual labor can be arduous. It's funny I earn my living behind a computer screen in the summer I am envious of outside work - come November I can't get inside quick enough. My college summers were spent as a pallor car attendant and a park ranger..
He will be a senior in September and is good at math and loves the computer so we are steering his college search towards programming. He like me at 17 is clueless with what he wants - but unlike me he has the wife and I to lend a guiding hand.
Funny but I'll bet some years from now there will come a day when he will miss the carts. Maybe he will be like me and sit outside in a comfy chair and be happy to just experience the fresh air and dream of those summer days...
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Me: "So you got a lot of hours in for your first week?"
Son: "Yeah but I have no real need for money"
Me: "wouldn't it be nice to have spending money in college"
Son: "yeah I guess I've made $200 already"
The next week brought two full days (8hrs) cashier training. "I don't want to be a cashier" He came home after the first full day and I asked him how his day went "that was unpleasant".
The second day "we all passed - all you have to do is know the produce... I'm not good at apples yet." I guess the cashier job wasn't do bad after all.
We are overjoyed that he's out of the house, off the computer and being forced to socialize. Don't get me wrong he's neither wallflower nor a geek but kids today are different and getting out and about is a good thing.
He told me he "hates the carts" and "I don't know how the full timers do it - 8 hours on their feet?" Success! I want him to see that money is hard earned and manual labor can be arduous. It's funny I earn my living behind a computer screen in the summer I am envious of outside work - come November I can't get inside quick enough. My college summers were spent as a pallor car attendant and a park ranger..
He will be a senior in September and is good at math and loves the computer so we are steering his college search towards programming. He like me at 17 is clueless with what he wants - but unlike me he has the wife and I to lend a guiding hand.
Funny but I'll bet some years from now there will come a day when he will miss the carts. Maybe he will be like me and sit outside in a comfy chair and be happy to just experience the fresh air and dream of those summer days...
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