I am really thinking of it for our 25th anniversary. We had I guess a lovely wedding, small, some family, some friends, in my church. But when I see the photos (taken by a relative), I remember how terrified I was--I'm not close to family, so it seemed like a performance. My aunt went out of her way to tell me that my dress was unflattering and didn't fit, which has dug into my soul ever since. I'd also like to spend the time to find a dress that I love, no sequins or beading, but something I feel beautiful in.
I really love the idea of a truly private vow renewal, just us and a photographer, with vows that we each spend time writing for each other. I would want flowers and an anniversary ring. No cake, no present, nobody even knowing until after the fact, if then. It will also coincide with a big move and a new start for us (semi-retirement in the city we consider "home"). Is this cheesy? If so, it won't bother me--after all, nobody needs to come!
I'll also add that this would be outside, in my husband's favorite place. He's been talking about going there for our 25th for year (we went about 8 months before we got married.)
I've survived some terrific medical problems and had very little chance of living to the 10 year mark, much less 25. So I am grateful, and beyond grateful
to have had him supporting me all these years.
Has anyone done something similar?
I really love the idea of a truly private vow renewal, just us and a photographer, with vows that we each spend time writing for each other. I would want flowers and an anniversary ring. No cake, no present, nobody even knowing until after the fact, if then. It will also coincide with a big move and a new start for us (semi-retirement in the city we consider "home"). Is this cheesy? If so, it won't bother me--after all, nobody needs to come!
I'll also add that this would be outside, in my husband's favorite place. He's been talking about going there for our 25th for year (we went about 8 months before we got married.)
I've survived some terrific medical problems and had very little chance of living to the 10 year mark, much less 25. So I am grateful, and beyond grateful
to have had him supporting me all these years.
Has anyone done something similar?
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