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03-06-2018, 12:41 PM
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#3101
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Midwest
Posts: 2,972
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Originally Posted by braumeister
Why would you even notice that? It's very common in many places to use "guys" as a simple, informal, generic term for "ladies and gentlemen."
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As a wise, wise guy once said:
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"...as time goes on, meanings of words shift."
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03-06-2018, 01:56 PM
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#3102
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Feb 2012
Posts: 1,477
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Originally Posted by Bestwifeever
DH and I walked through a Crate & Barrel last week and were called “guys” by three different staff people: one a 30-something, two of them our age; two women, one man. Next time we will toy with them and call them “guys” right back. Would that be wrong?
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That term used to bother my father to no end. Me, I'd rather be called that than 'ma'am'
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03-06-2018, 02:19 PM
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#3103
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: The Beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains
Posts: 2,792
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Bestwifeever
DH and I walked through a Crate & Barrel last week and were called “guys” by three different staff people: one a 30-something, two of them our age; two women, one man. Next time we will toy with them and call them “guys” right back. Would that be wrong?
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DW and I used to find this mildly annoying; now we just find it mildly amusing.
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03-06-2018, 02:20 PM
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#3104
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Jun 2010
Posts: 2,140
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I refer to everyone as "you guys". Men, women, kids, it doesn't matter. They are all "you guys". Maybe it's a regional thing.
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And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.- Desiderata by Max Ehrmann
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03-06-2018, 02:22 PM
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: GTA
Posts: 1,728
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In NY/NJ isn't it pronounced "youse guyz" ??
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Family Motto: "Every penny's a prisoner"
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03-06-2018, 02:23 PM
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#3106
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 8,368
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"Hello, Sailor....new in town?"
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"Exit, pursued by a bear."
The Winter's Tale, William Shakespeare
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03-06-2018, 02:26 PM
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: The Beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains
Posts: 2,792
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MY PP today is efiling federal income taxes. For identification of the filer, the program asks for last year's AGI for me as well as DW. Since we filed a joint return my engineer's brain struggles with the questions of "did you file a return last year" followed by "did DW file a return last year?" Dammit, WE filed A return last year! OK, that's my NT Meyer's Briggs profile talking.
But then, it gets rejected because either one or both PIN numbers are wrong OR one or both AGIs are wrong (nah, nah, we aren't going to tell you which!). After gyrating through verifying these multiple combinations, I noticed HRB at Home "helpfully" pre-populated last year's AGI for me, but it's wrong. It's also "grayed out" so I can't change it. Google google google, ah! I have to right-click on the field and override it.
Finally! It gets accepted. Meanwhile, DW is seeing all these emails about IRS rejecting the returns and is convinced either I'm an idiot or someone is trying to hijack our refund.
Sorry, but I feel better now. It's beer-o'clock.
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03-06-2018, 03:01 PM
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#3108
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Moderator Emeritus
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 17,774
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Quote:
Originally Posted by braumeister
Why would you even notice that? It's very common in many places to use "guys" as a simple, informal, generic term for "ladies and gentlemen."
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Eh, I didn’t notice it until DH called it to my attention—he’s on a “guys” and “no problem” (in lieu of “you’re welcome”) snit. I’ll be sure to tell him you don’t think he should notice it.
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03-06-2018, 07:00 PM
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#3109
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Recycles dryer sheets
Join Date: May 2015
Location: Henderson
Posts: 258
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The “no problem” gets me too. We have a fine dining favorite restaurant where I’ve heard it. I find that discourteous. The counter thought goes through my mind that what I have thanked you for is actually your job. It’s a given it’s no problem. The phrase doesn’t belong in the service industry.
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03-07-2018, 10:30 AM
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#3110
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 2,360
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Quote:
Originally Posted by braumeister
It's very common in many places to use "guys" as a simple, informal, generic term for "ladies and gentlemen."
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Not in any civilized country.
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"To know what you prefer, instead of humbly saying Amen to what the world tells you you ought to prefer, is to have kept your soul alive". Robert Louis Stevenson, An Inland Voyage (1878)
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03-07-2018, 11:04 AM
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#3111
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 14,328
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Yea, but we are talking about the USA here.
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03-07-2018, 11:18 AM
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#3112
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 11,078
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Bestwifeever
Eh, I didn’t notice it until DH called it to my attention—he’s on a “guys” and “no problem” (in lieu of “you’re welcome”) snit. I’ll be sure to tell him you don’t think he should notice it.
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I agree with your DH. Saying "you're welcome" sounds very condescending when someone thanks you. I prefer the phrase I heard in South Africa "my pleasure".
My pet peeve is the colors combos on most packages in the grocery store. Who comes up with white print on a light orange package. Who over the age of 30 can read that garbage?
I complained to one manufacture, they sent me a coupon for a free product? WTF? Did you hear me say that I can't read the directions on your product? How about a magnifying glass?
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03-12-2018, 07:51 PM
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#3113
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 11,702
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Here's a peeve. How can this English be correct? Would we say this conversationally?
"The Attorneys general's brothers-in-law's neighborhoods have many culs-de-sac."
How on earth could a non-native learn this madness?
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03-12-2018, 08:43 PM
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#3114
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Join Date: Sep 2014
Location: The Great Wide Open
Posts: 3,804
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Around these parts, "you guys" is translated to "yinz". ie. "Yinz are going to the mall, let me put my shoes on , and I'll go with you." or " Yinz need any help?" Never drops an eyelash around here.
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03-13-2018, 06:36 AM
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#3115
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 8,368
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Radio 'News' Announcers who insist on saying "in-term" instead of "interim"........(While I'm yelling "Geez, you're on the **** radio, speak the **** language!" )
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The Winter's Tale, William Shakespeare
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03-13-2018, 11:12 AM
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#3116
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 6,506
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None today. Maybe find one tomorrow.
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There must be moderation in everything, including moderation.
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03-13-2018, 11:37 AM
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#3117
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Sarasota, FL & Vermont
Posts: 36,375
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I do tax returns for a friend and a few relatives. It seems that as long as they don't have to pay anything in addition to what was withheld that they are happier than pigs in mud... they seem to have no appreciation for if the are getting a sizeable refund that they have made the government a tax-free loan... and these are otherwise pretty smart people... drives me crazy.
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If something cannot endure laughter.... it cannot endure.
Patience is the art of concealing your impatience.
Slow and steady wins the race.
Retired Jan 2012 at age 56
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03-13-2018, 11:58 AM
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#3118
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 9,962
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Quote:
Originally Posted by MRG
I agree with your DH. Saying "you're welcome" sounds very condescending when someone thanks you. I prefer the phrase I heard in South Africa "my pleasure".
My pet peeve is the colors combos on most packages in the grocery store. Who comes up with white print on a light orange package. Who over the age of 30 can read that garbage?
I complained to one manufacture, they sent me a coupon for a free product? WTF? Did you hear me say that I can't read the directions on your product? How about a magnifying glass?
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How does you're welcome sounds condescending? I don't have an issue with you're welcome, my pleasure, or no problem, they are just ways of acknowledging someone's Thank You. In fact if someone says Thank you, no response at all seems awkward.
My favorite thank you story comes from my then 3 year old GD. At meals 3 years olds need help with lots of things. One mealtime after about 5 or 6 thank yous she decided that was plenty and told her Mother. "I'm tired of saying Thank you!
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03-13-2018, 03:06 PM
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#3119
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Dryer sheet wannabe
Join Date: Feb 2018
Location: Maumelle
Posts: 10
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pet peeve
people who spend more time figuring out their basketball bracket and fantasy football scores than figuring out how to retire not broke.
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03-13-2018, 03:47 PM
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#3120
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Join Date: Apr 2013
Posts: 11,078
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Folks who have no sense of time, today it's the dog groomer. I think there's a new groomer in our dogs future.
I set an alarm to get the dogs in there before her 8:00 AM shut off. No problem. The fact you charge twice what I usually pay? No problem. When I asked for an estimate of when I could pick them up? 1-2 PM OK, you'll call me for sure. At 3:30 DW calls to make sure we haven't missed your call. Oh you haven't started our dogs yet? It will be another hour or two? Really?
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