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I saw the thread on finding a good neighborhood and thought I would start one about finding a good choice for a landing spot.
Here is an article praising city living, but my main interest here is a picture of one of my two favorite coffee houses- The Bauhaus. The density-bashers raise some good questions | Crosscut.com
Here is the other
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I was talking to a ~45 yo single guy who lives in the condo building next to my apartment. He is kind of their volunteer landscaper, and he is very talented and very steady. He is also president of their condo association.
In spite of being only 45 and in very good health, he said that when he moved into this place he wanted it to be his last move. And he explained what he looked for, beyond a place he would like. It must have an elevator. It must be secure, even during long absences. Few or no stairs into the building, and an easy, level walk to groceries and attractive streets and shopping. He explained that he wants to be able to navigate with a walker should that become necessary. Short bus or cab cab ride to doctors and hospitals was a requirement. He also wanted assisted living in the same neighborhood so that should this become necessary his friends could easily visit.
My parents had a similar situation. In contrast, my former inlaws in their 50s moved into totally car dependent suburban DC SFH, with no access to house that was not up a steep path or up steep steps. They kept 2 cars, and enjoyed their long lives in this home, but recently the wife's health took a turn for the worse and she fell and broke a hip. She died 2 weeks later in surgery. Now a long life is a long life, and I doubt hers could have been that much longer under different circumstances, but it would be nice all other things being equal to not be so dependent on lifelong perfect health, and in particular continued ability to drive safely and confidently.
The husband who is really getting on must scramble to find a new home, as they really needed their team to make do. He couldn't boil and egg, and driving a good distance in any weather to get meals 3x/day cannot be optimal. He likely will land in some sort of institutional setting. Which would perhaps not be necessary if they had lived in a handy urban building. I do know at two 100 year old women who live by themselves in U District apartments, and one 83 year old blind man who lives alone in my neighborhood. It is amazing how well one can live with an elevator and a walker.
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Here is an article praising city living, but my main interest here is a picture of one of my two favorite coffee houses- The Bauhaus. The density-bashers raise some good questions | Crosscut.com
Here is the other
seattleallegro.com*|*
I was talking to a ~45 yo single guy who lives in the condo building next to my apartment. He is kind of their volunteer landscaper, and he is very talented and very steady. He is also president of their condo association.
In spite of being only 45 and in very good health, he said that when he moved into this place he wanted it to be his last move. And he explained what he looked for, beyond a place he would like. It must have an elevator. It must be secure, even during long absences. Few or no stairs into the building, and an easy, level walk to groceries and attractive streets and shopping. He explained that he wants to be able to navigate with a walker should that become necessary. Short bus or cab cab ride to doctors and hospitals was a requirement. He also wanted assisted living in the same neighborhood so that should this become necessary his friends could easily visit.
My parents had a similar situation. In contrast, my former inlaws in their 50s moved into totally car dependent suburban DC SFH, with no access to house that was not up a steep path or up steep steps. They kept 2 cars, and enjoyed their long lives in this home, but recently the wife's health took a turn for the worse and she fell and broke a hip. She died 2 weeks later in surgery. Now a long life is a long life, and I doubt hers could have been that much longer under different circumstances, but it would be nice all other things being equal to not be so dependent on lifelong perfect health, and in particular continued ability to drive safely and confidently.
The husband who is really getting on must scramble to find a new home, as they really needed their team to make do. He couldn't boil and egg, and driving a good distance in any weather to get meals 3x/day cannot be optimal. He likely will land in some sort of institutional setting. Which would perhaps not be necessary if they had lived in a handy urban building. I do know at two 100 year old women who live by themselves in U District apartments, and one 83 year old blind man who lives alone in my neighborhood. It is amazing how well one can live with an elevator and a walker.
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