Midpack
Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
It's not golf, but I'll use that as an example. We compete as a team with many other teams, though there are different divisions (say by handicap). There's nothing at stake but bragging rights, and the "administrators" are fellow competitors, all volunteering their services. While it's in good fun, obviously most people don't show up week after week just for fun, they spend time and money to compete so I assume they care about results also.
The results have been compromised by outright cheating in a few cases, and innocent mistakes in more cases. It's not a gray call, everything is in black and white, but many competitors are number phobic and just trust others. Where our team is affected, I politely speak up until the situation is corrected. However, results in other divisions are also in error for similar reasons. Even though it probably shouldn't bother me as our results aren't affected, it eats at me to know others are being rewarded (or not rewarded) incorrectly.
I have pointed out the mistakes to the folks in charge and while they don't disagree with my concerns, they simply choose to do nothing - they go along to get along. They've told me "maybe you should be in charge next year." When I replied 'you wouldn't like that, as I couldn't overlook the errors,' one told me, 'that's probably what we need.' [Then why not just step up now since you know!]
It's tempting for me to point out the errors to teams who are not being rewarded (even though they've earned it), but it's "none of my business" and they're grown ups so I guess I should assume they can look out for themselves. And I've kept silent, but it eats at me.
The season is almost over and there's an annual awards banquet coming up at which the wrong teams will win/place in some cases.
I realize all this is pretty sad, maybe more on my part than others, why the heck does it bother me when others are cheated? I gather most people wouldn't give a hoot...'lighten up Francis.'
Feel free to let me have it, I don't understand myself on this trait...
The results have been compromised by outright cheating in a few cases, and innocent mistakes in more cases. It's not a gray call, everything is in black and white, but many competitors are number phobic and just trust others. Where our team is affected, I politely speak up until the situation is corrected. However, results in other divisions are also in error for similar reasons. Even though it probably shouldn't bother me as our results aren't affected, it eats at me to know others are being rewarded (or not rewarded) incorrectly.
I have pointed out the mistakes to the folks in charge and while they don't disagree with my concerns, they simply choose to do nothing - they go along to get along. They've told me "maybe you should be in charge next year." When I replied 'you wouldn't like that, as I couldn't overlook the errors,' one told me, 'that's probably what we need.' [Then why not just step up now since you know!]
It's tempting for me to point out the errors to teams who are not being rewarded (even though they've earned it), but it's "none of my business" and they're grown ups so I guess I should assume they can look out for themselves. And I've kept silent, but it eats at me.
The season is almost over and there's an annual awards banquet coming up at which the wrong teams will win/place in some cases.
I realize all this is pretty sad, maybe more on my part than others, why the heck does it bother me when others are cheated? I gather most people wouldn't give a hoot...'lighten up Francis.'
Feel free to let me have it, I don't understand myself on this trait...
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