Not sure what to think on this one maybe just sour grapes but about a year ago my wife of 32 years recieved $500,000 in inheiritance, she paid off our $20k in debt and bought a new $18k Toyota to replace our aging other car and that was the end of her generosity.We both have company pensions so we arent hurting for money but i had hoped she would loosen the purse strings a bit and let me buy a second car as there are 3 drivers in the family,she keeps the money in a seperate account and refuses to part with any of it as i have known this inheiritance was coming sooner or later for the past 3 decades i always thought it would enhance our lives to some extent,i'm not a spendthrift and the idea of wasting the inheiritance on frivolities would not be respecting her parents accumulations from hard work over their lives,but to just leave it in a bank and ultimately leave it to the kids who havent really done anything to earn it while i've busted my butt working in a factory for 45 years just irks me..As this issue is causing some heated debate in our relationship i was wondering how others would handle it.thanks