FUEGO
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I never fully understood the young couples that start out with nothing and maintain "his, hers, and ours" pots of money. Inevitably it seems the more spendy spouse of the two ends up being subsidized by the more frugal spouse and resentment ensues. It devolves into a de facto "ours" pot of money when the frugal spouse bails out the spendy spouse repeatedly (implicitly or explicitly).
This is a different situation from those older couples marrying later in life and/or after divorces and having kids and/or having large incomes and/or large assets coming into the marriage.
This is a different situation from those older couples marrying later in life and/or after divorces and having kids and/or having large incomes and/or large assets coming into the marriage.