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Old 03-22-2012, 03:53 PM   #1
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Advice you'd give your 25 year old self

If you had a time machine and could go back to talk to your younger self, what piece(s) of financial advice would you give in hopes of achieving FIRE more easily and/or living a better life. Or more specifically, what mistakes would you avoid if you had a mulligan.

Obviously, "save more!" is the easy answer... but I was looking for something more detailed.

I'm not much past that age myself (just turned 30) and am always looking for an opportunity to learn from others much wiser than me.
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Old 03-22-2012, 04:04 PM   #2
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"Buy MSFT and AAPL" in the 1980s would have been great advice, but I suspect you mean something more useful in general. I think it would be to manage my own accounts back then rather than use an investment advisor. Also buy more stocks less funds.
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Old 03-22-2012, 04:43 PM   #4
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That's my DS. I've told him to save at least 15% of gross salary for retirement and contribute to a Roth IRA as long as he's in the lower tax bracket and below the income limit.
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Old 03-22-2012, 04:48 PM   #5
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Old 03-22-2012, 05:20 PM   #6
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  • Save all you can, that you've already figured out. Many don't even grasp this...
  • Read The Millionaire Next Door and The Four Pillars of Investing, and take them both to heart.
  • Understand that you'll be different than your peers and mainstream western culture, especially the USA. You'll have the last and best laugh.
  • Make your goal FI, ER is a separate decision you can consider later.
  • Enjoy your life every day in the meantime. Relationships and experiences are much more valuable than "things."
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Old 03-22-2012, 05:36 PM   #8
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I think mine would be work harder to balance spending and savings. Î spent lots of time binge saving then spending.
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Old 03-22-2012, 05:41 PM   #9
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If you had a time machine and could go back to talk to your younger self, what piece(s) of financial advice would you give in hopes of achieving FIRE more easily and/or living a better life. Or more specifically, what mistakes would you avoid if you had a mulligan.

Obviously, "save more!" is the easy answer... but I was looking for something more detailed.
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I'm not much past that age myself (just turned 30) and am always looking for an opportunity to learn from others much wiser than me.
Mmmmm, hmmmmm.....

Oh...and I'd add....'quit your b*tchin', you're only 25!'
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- It's ok to be frugal but don't be cheap.
- Don't waste your money on "status" items; do waste your money on experiences with other people.
- Don't worry so much about your job; it will all work out.
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Old 03-22-2012, 07:15 PM   #12
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Everything's gonna be OK. Stop stressing about it!
Exactly. If you are on this forum your probably of the mindset to LBYM and save like mad. Don't forget to live a little while your at it.
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Old 03-22-2012, 07:29 PM   #13
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Old 03-22-2012, 07:29 PM   #14
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Since I'm 35 now... Avoid the stock market. Invest in gold, silver, oil, Australian denominated CDs, etc.
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Also, on a more serious note - Asset allocation = age in bonds give or take a little. Stocks looks great now, maybe bonds will in your lifetime, nobody knows. That's all I've got to offer. I'm a plodder ,but don't forget to keep some balance in your life.
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- It's ok to be frugal but don't be cheap.
- Don't waste your money on "status" items; do waste your money on experiences with other people.
- Don't worry so much about your job; it will all work out.
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Old 03-22-2012, 07:54 PM   #18
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If you had a time machine and could go back to talk to your younger self, what piece(s) of financial advice would you give in hopes of achieving FIRE more easily and/or living a better life. Or more specifically, what mistakes would you avoid if you had a mulligan.

Obviously, "save more!" is the easy answer... but I was looking for something more detailed.

I'm not much past that age myself (just turned 30) and am always looking for an opportunity to learn from others much wiser than me.
Live below your means - sorry but that is all there is to it. I am retired
and there is a certain basketball player that made $135,000,000 and he
will never retire!
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Old 03-22-2012, 07:59 PM   #19
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I have the answer. I have done it. Ignore at your own risk. Most do.

Read:

The millionaire next door-already mentioned
The millionaire mind-an excellent book which delineates the way millionaires think
Stop acting rich and spend like a millionaire-what millionaires spend money on

All by Thomas Stanley

Invest as much as possible as fast as possible into the equity markets and increase your investments during severe financial market slumps.

Finally, the only advice you will ever need to live by, my favorite quote:

Buy when everyone else is Selling. Sell when everyone else is buying. Spend when everyone else is saving. And save when everyone else is spending.
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