So true! Also, we seem to think we will never need assistance and can always live on our own. That is not true, and a good, pleasant, compassionate continuous care facility is not cheap. I would imagine that when the baby boomers hit these facilities, they will be in such demand that they will become frightfully expensive.
People don't want to face the fact that aging occurs, and will occur to them if they are lucky enough to live a long time. My mother was in a very nice/elegant and expensive facility in Honolulu for the last 15 years of her life, and really needed it for over 10 years. I won't need one quite so elegant, but I do not want to have to rely on Medicaid, which may not even exist in 30 years, and I do not want to end up enduring the experience of a Medicaid nursing home.
I think that possible future needs and costs of such a facility is something many of us may find worthwhile to consider when doing financial planning for ER. Those who feel comfortable relying on insurance companies for this can get long term care insurance. An alternative is to self-insure. We can see in Firecalc that a slightly lower SWR over many years can result in a nestegg that is substantially larger and could be used for such expenses. Time is on our side.
Whew - - good morning! Time for another cup of coffee. Hope the above makes sense to the reader.
Your post was excellent! Thank you so much for writing it. I think you are absolutely correct. There are so many people out there that flat out refuse to see the reality that , "Yes.... I will one day be old!". These people do not plan for that reality, and then later in life wind up scrambling for funds, or expect their children, govt, religious organization, etc. to save them. And the most amazing thing about it is, that each of us has the power to save ourselves from this. If you LBYM, save and plan for that day off into the future, everything CAN be fine. I learned the truth a long time ago that in fact I will NOT be living forever. I would think this understanding should be common sense. But as the years have gone by, I have found that "common sense" is not nearly as common as it used to be. The only thing that I think we should stongly push for is the introduction of these concepts into schooling at all levels. I think that the concepts of LBYM and saving for retirement should become as common in schooling as reading, writing, and math skills. Just my opinion....