JustCurious
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My mother in law is 75 years old and retired, and she lives off of SS and a military survivor pension. She also has some money in an IRA which she has invested with the local Edward Jones guy in her area. I was looking at her investments, and he put her IRA funds into various funds including Putnam funds with front end loads (average 5 percent), and expense ratios averaging around 1.5 percent. For example, the money market fund has an expense ratio of 1.3 percent!! (this compares to Vanguard's MM exp ratio of .29 percent)
Also, she received a modest 5 figure inheritence a couple of years ago, and he put that into a Variable Annuity!! She also has some money invested in college funds for her grandkids with front end loads and high expense ratios.
I tried to talk to her and explain that she was being charged to much and she could do a lot better investing with Vanguard, and she responded "but I only pay him $30" referring to his advisor fee, and I tried to explain that his advisor fee was very small in comparison to how much they were skimming off the top of her money in expense ratios and load fees, etc, but she again cut me off and said "I like him, he is nice....." and that was the end of the conversation. I tried to push it a bit more, but she started to get annoyed, so I backed off and decided it wasn't worth hurting my relationship to save her from herself.
I know I am preaching to the converted on this board, but I wanted to vent a bit. Has anyone else experienced similar issues with uneducated....gullible....stubborn family members?
Also, she received a modest 5 figure inheritence a couple of years ago, and he put that into a Variable Annuity!! She also has some money invested in college funds for her grandkids with front end loads and high expense ratios.
I tried to talk to her and explain that she was being charged to much and she could do a lot better investing with Vanguard, and she responded "but I only pay him $30" referring to his advisor fee, and I tried to explain that his advisor fee was very small in comparison to how much they were skimming off the top of her money in expense ratios and load fees, etc, but she again cut me off and said "I like him, he is nice....." and that was the end of the conversation. I tried to push it a bit more, but she started to get annoyed, so I backed off and decided it wasn't worth hurting my relationship to save her from herself.
I know I am preaching to the converted on this board, but I wanted to vent a bit. Has anyone else experienced similar issues with uneducated....gullible....stubborn family members?