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Okay "Forced"...here goes....Tomorrow we'll wait to see you back here and please tell us of ONE Thing you've begun to do from the list of suggestions here.
If you have a mission to accomplish, and you do, you need to put that one foot out and start walking...I know it sounds corny, but six month clock is ticking, and you can always come here and report or discuss or just shoot the breeze....but DO SOMETHING....
I confess I've not been in your situation, and it must seem overwhelming. But you're "only" 61. Hopefully you'll have some life left to live that won't be this stressful...
Look at it this way. The sooner you move from your current location, which is WAAAAAY to expensive to maintain unless you get a comparable job as to what let you rent there to begin with, the sooner the stress will lift. You have $300,000 to work with. A TON more than a lot of folks do. And, you have only yourself to worry about.
Stay FAR AWAY from downers. Shower, shave, clean clothes, and maybe take a 1/2 hour timed walk starting tomorrow. Walking relieves stress, gets you out, and gets you moving AWAY from downers. Don't worry about them, focus on YOU.
Good luck. But start TOMORROW and report back please!!
Some folks responses may seem harsh or critical BUT most people here got here by fierce determination and will power, myself included, so it CAN be done.
If you have a mission to accomplish, and you do, you need to put that one foot out and start walking...I know it sounds corny, but six month clock is ticking, and you can always come here and report or discuss or just shoot the breeze....but DO SOMETHING....
I confess I've not been in your situation, and it must seem overwhelming. But you're "only" 61. Hopefully you'll have some life left to live that won't be this stressful...
Look at it this way. The sooner you move from your current location, which is WAAAAAY to expensive to maintain unless you get a comparable job as to what let you rent there to begin with, the sooner the stress will lift. You have $300,000 to work with. A TON more than a lot of folks do. And, you have only yourself to worry about.
Stay FAR AWAY from downers. Shower, shave, clean clothes, and maybe take a 1/2 hour timed walk starting tomorrow. Walking relieves stress, gets you out, and gets you moving AWAY from downers. Don't worry about them, focus on YOU.
Good luck. But start TOMORROW and report back please!!
Some folks responses may seem harsh or critical BUT most people here got here by fierce determination and will power, myself included, so it CAN be done.