I was raised by my biological parents and they spent EVERYTHING. When times were good, we ate filet mignon and drove Cadillacs. When times were bad, we had to cut everything back. I grew up knowing that I didn't want to live like that. Saving is not hereditary, it is learned. It can be learned by watching frugal parents and following their example, and it can be learned by watching your parents squander their money and knowing that lifestyle is not for you. I saved a lot of my money starting with my first job. I worked all through high school and college. I have always been a saver and at 50 am financially independent (but still working...ugh!). I value financial security more than my parents did.