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I'm wondering if there any common experiences among this ER group. What was a childhood experience - good or bad - that helped you to development the financial habits needed for FIRE?
Side topic - Is nature or nurture more influential on a strong FIRE desire as an adult? (The board has plenty of threads suggesting the INTJ personality type has some correlation to forum-posting early retirees - or ER wannabes.)
From time to time - say with recommendations on money books for kids - we've had members recalling childhood money events that were influential.
There's quite a range of stories, though. From "We were so poor, I promised myself..." to "Daddy started me with a passbook savings account" to "I taught myself everything important about money after I got divorced".
This is the JFP article that made me think of the topic.
Interior Finance: The Micro-Level Exploration of Individual Client Money Scripts
I found much of the article bordered on "pop" psychology, but it mentioned childhood experiences in the context of a financial advisor exploring a new client's attitudes about investing.
Side topic - Is nature or nurture more influential on a strong FIRE desire as an adult? (The board has plenty of threads suggesting the INTJ personality type has some correlation to forum-posting early retirees - or ER wannabes.)
From time to time - say with recommendations on money books for kids - we've had members recalling childhood money events that were influential.
There's quite a range of stories, though. From "We were so poor, I promised myself..." to "Daddy started me with a passbook savings account" to "I taught myself everything important about money after I got divorced".
This is the JFP article that made me think of the topic.
Interior Finance: The Micro-Level Exploration of Individual Client Money Scripts
I found much of the article bordered on "pop" psychology, but it mentioned childhood experiences in the context of a financial advisor exploring a new client's attitudes about investing.
Putting Interior Finance into Action
Usually, people first consult financial planners during significant life transitions like marriages, divorces, inheritances, buying or selling businesses, and retirement. At these times, which are both financially and emotionally charged, people often have an increased awareness of their past money decisions as well as some fear about the future and uncertainty in the here and now. They are usually not looking for explanations of their money behavior as much as they are seeking ways to do things differently in the future. This is often the perfect opportunity to open the door to exploring their personal relationship with money.
That doesn’t mean it works well to start the first client meeting with, “What’s your most painful childhood memory about money?” Our first task with new clients is to start building a relationship of trust...
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