I'm wondering if others have had elderly parents have an abrupt change in behavior about finances.
My dad is 96 and lives at home alone (in my town). He's in decent health, but has started to decline quite a bit and will probably have to move somewhere soon.
About 10 years ago (after mom died), I helped my dad set up a will, POA, etc. We also did things like put me and my brother on his bank accounts, set up a TOD on the house, etc. Basically things to avoid probate. He was all for these moves and freely help us set all of this up.
Lately, he has been squawking about how he didn't know that we were on his bank accounts and how we should not have access to any of his financial information. I was trying to help him renew a CD and although he's incapable of doing this himself, he didn't want me "doing anything with his money". We have never taken a penny out of his accounts and don't plan to. I keep an eye on all of his money basically to make sure he doesn't get scammed.
And then last night I brought him home from our family Christmas gathering and he immediately started calculating that he got "ripped off" because the kids and grandkids didn't give him presents that matched what he gave them ($50 each). He said this is the last time he gives any presents (which is fine by us).
I assume this is possibly just part of the mental decline caused by old age. Anybody else experience something like this with their elderly parents?
My dad is 96 and lives at home alone (in my town). He's in decent health, but has started to decline quite a bit and will probably have to move somewhere soon.
About 10 years ago (after mom died), I helped my dad set up a will, POA, etc. We also did things like put me and my brother on his bank accounts, set up a TOD on the house, etc. Basically things to avoid probate. He was all for these moves and freely help us set all of this up.
Lately, he has been squawking about how he didn't know that we were on his bank accounts and how we should not have access to any of his financial information. I was trying to help him renew a CD and although he's incapable of doing this himself, he didn't want me "doing anything with his money". We have never taken a penny out of his accounts and don't plan to. I keep an eye on all of his money basically to make sure he doesn't get scammed.
And then last night I brought him home from our family Christmas gathering and he immediately started calculating that he got "ripped off" because the kids and grandkids didn't give him presents that matched what he gave them ($50 each). He said this is the last time he gives any presents (which is fine by us).
I assume this is possibly just part of the mental decline caused by old age. Anybody else experience something like this with their elderly parents?