Danmar
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
From a financial point of view, divorces are often difficult because of the matrimonial home. Often, it is impossible for one party to buy the other party out and keep possession. In my case the financial terms were so one sided, she got to keep the house and I paid for it. This was ok by me because I didn't want my daughter to have to move. It resulted in financial hardship for me though, maybe 5 years of living paycheck to paycheck, borrowing when necessary to keep them in the house. Meanwhile I was in a small rental apartment, no car, couldnt really afford suits for work. Luckily I met a wonderful woman (currently my wife of 22 years) who understood the issues and actually helped me out financially. In the overall scheme of things it's remarkable it worked out so well, for everyone.
I always said to myself "do the right thing because you have to look yourself in the eye every morning when you shave". Never had any problem doing that.
I always said to myself "do the right thing because you have to look yourself in the eye every morning when you shave". Never had any problem doing that.