Bestwifeever
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DH's grandfather was "the richest man in town" in a very small town in the midwest and gave each of his three sons a home. DH's father gave his kids each a car (but we have them our car back as we did not need it) and a downpayment on a house. DH and I gave each of our kids a car (of course they cost more than the home DH's father received from his father). Wonder what our kids will give their kids.... On the other hand the typical gifts from DH's parents through the years have always been quite thrifty; my parents passed away before we were married/had children so no "help" there and I miss them every single day. $$ not important--we would still have been able to buy our home without DH's father's help. DH's father and grandfather's generation did feel entitled, but not DH's generation and certainly not our kids who work hard and are better off than we are financially. We paid for their college and daughter's wedding--if blessed with grandchildren we will certainly be enjoying ourselves by thinking of them.