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My best friend (an Ivy Leaguer) put his two kids thru Dallas and Atlanta's finest primary and secondary schools. The daughter went to Washington and Lee and the son went to a military college.
While his friends are retiring in their late 50's and early 60s, he's having to work until he's almost 70. He sure wishes he had some of that $2 million gross income he spent on the kids' educations. The daughter is a M.D. in residency and the son is an Army Ranger somewhere nobody will talk about.
My father always told me state universities were good enough for my sister and me. There were no student loans in our family--a cancer on the pocket of the middle class.
The mistake wasn't sending the kids to expensive schools. The mistake was forgetting to offset the additional expenditure with additional income at the time. Turn up the spending dial. Turn up the income dial to correspond and keep plans intact.