Live and learn inspired as well. And I like the way you split expenses by category. When I was working I made excellent money. To the point I never even thought about what I spent. If I wanted something I just bought it. Always maxed out all retirement savings plus other savings. But also spent a lot of money on anything and everything. So before I retired last year I tried really hard to calculate what my expense would be once retired and would my income support that. I made detail budgets with an item by item focus. Went back through spending habits and tried to put things in buckets of required, nice, and frivolous. I finally ended up with a budget of 110K. I had to set it 50K higher (160K) for first two years because I am in the process of selling our workplace home and moving to our retirement home and that was the total cost to support that home. Mortgage, taxes, insurance, repairs, utilities, etc.
Am just coming up on first full year. The good news is total spending and total budget were about the same. The bad news is the bucket by bucket analysis was way off. Got another year to sell the home and move to retirement home before I get into any income issues, and even if it takes longer to sell we will still be OK, but would like to start the final phase of living. And based on everything I spent last year I am in the process of adjusting the budget for the next 12 months to better match actuals.
One pleasant surprise was the ability (because of available time) to identify and implement cost savings. Changing phone services, managing cable bill, walking the golf course vs riding, refinance mortgage, where we shop, DIY, and a few others. Was able to manage down expenses about 1K per month with no quality of life impact. Have done the same thing with the revenue side of things by consolidating investment accounts, moving to lower cost funds, manage and rebalanced more closely, better tax management, and a few other things to improve cash flow.
So all in all the first year has been a learning experience and a fun adventure. Ready to start year number two. Priority is selling the house so as to significantly drop all expenses. Goes back on the market end of March.