pb4uski
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My parents could afford to pay for our college and they viewed their obligation as providing us with a college education if we chose to do it and then it was up to us. As I recall, I had an "allowance" during my freshman year of college but started working thereafter and didn't have anything after that other than Dad occasionally slipping me a $20 here or there my last 3 years of college.
My roommate's family was less well off and I remember him working like a dog to pay for college between his own work, grants and loans and some parental help, so I felt very fortunate that my parents took care of tuition and room and I only had to worry about food and my own personal expenses after that freshman year.
DW's family was similar to my roommate and she pretty much paid for her own post secondary education through work, grants and loans and a little help from her Mom.
I have taken the same approach that my parents did. We'll pay for tuition, room and board for four years - then the rest is up to you. That is what we did for DD. DS has chosen not to go to college so far, though we will pay for his post-secondary education and since his profession will be low-paying at least initially, I think we will probably help him out a bit here and there - not because we feel obligated to do so but because we are blessed and have the wherewithal to do so.
I also feel obligated to pay for a reasonable wedding should DD ever get married but more because we can. Beyond a certain $ amount though, it is on her and her fiance.
My roommate's family was less well off and I remember him working like a dog to pay for college between his own work, grants and loans and some parental help, so I felt very fortunate that my parents took care of tuition and room and I only had to worry about food and my own personal expenses after that freshman year.
DW's family was similar to my roommate and she pretty much paid for her own post secondary education through work, grants and loans and a little help from her Mom.
I have taken the same approach that my parents did. We'll pay for tuition, room and board for four years - then the rest is up to you. That is what we did for DD. DS has chosen not to go to college so far, though we will pay for his post-secondary education and since his profession will be low-paying at least initially, I think we will probably help him out a bit here and there - not because we feel obligated to do so but because we are blessed and have the wherewithal to do so.
I also feel obligated to pay for a reasonable wedding should DD ever get married but more because we can. Beyond a certain $ amount though, it is on her and her fiance.
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