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We're in year 4. Our ER was a bit more sudden than others. DH quit in 2002 and I planned to work part time until age 55... oops, got laid off in 2003. We adopted the "widow's rule" (that is, don't do anything big, like sell your house, for at least 1 year). We stayed put until 2006, when we decided to sell our POS condo and buy something newer and nicer a bit further away.
We spent about $80-$100K renovating our new house and are very happy we did so. We are now living in a beautiful (new!) place.
One of the most difficult things in the first year was to get over the mindset of "saving every cent you can", because once you are in ER, there's no reason to do so anymore.
We did the same thing, i.e., eye exams, glasses, dental work, etc. before we quit.
However, most surprisingly, we have been hit with many different emergencies such as needing a new central a/c, and have been able to weather it financially and still maintain a SWR of less than 4%.
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