lazygood4nothinbum said:
hey this aint found money. this is years of taking out the garbage, mowing the lawn, cleaning the pool, washing the cars & scrubbing the decks.
True. I'm not saying it ain't true.
But kids take out the garbage and wash cars, BMWs or Plymouth Dusters as they may be, all their lives and end up with a s***load less than $700k for their troubles.
Taking out the garbage in suburban RI is much the same as taking out the garbage in Palm Beach or wherever, FL, I dare to imagine. Or do shrimp shells and caviar jars weigh oh-so-much more than hot-weenie wrappers and Chunky soup cans?? Tell me, do.
(not to be rude, but get a grip on what you really after in this scenario.. where you really need to be...)
If you're on this board, it's probably a given that you're not "lazy", but that you know when you have enough (as you've already said!).
You don't need to pay your dues, get a 'reward', or show off your investment "chops" by making the 'big score' in RE development IF it's not right for you (especially if it makes you largely reliant on the success of this one investment and screws up your asset allocation). Developing (aside from whatever tax concerns) would also put you in a complicated multi-year business partnership situation with your brother (and, it seems, by default, your uncle). Is that a good idea?
Just from a buyer's point of view, if I'm going to be spending upwards of $500k, much less $3mm, for new construction I'd want a say in the design, finishing, and so on!! I certainly wouldn't be buying "off the rack" but that market is a bit rarefied for me to opine about.
If development is dear brother's need and desire, wish him all the best. If you're not convinced, you're not convinced.. Your proximity to this particular property and to him and your mom could color your decision. Instead, you have the latitude and the privilege to look beyond this one opportunity into the ones that *are* right for you, and that's a rare, and nice, place to be!
It's hard to reconcile what you say about how you would "love to build" and make "even more money" with some of the other stuff you have written. But personally I would cycle with your millions off into the sunset and off into what YOU want to be doing.. that's what I am reading between the lines.
All the best for when you make your final decision..
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I got plenty o'nothin' and nothin's plenty for me
I got no car, got no mule, I got no misery
Folks with plenty of plenty, they got a lock on the door
Afraid somebody's gonna rob 'em while they're out a'makin' more
What for?
I got no lock on the door, that's no way to be
They can steal the rug from the floor, that's OK with me
'cause the things that I prize, like the stars in the skies, are all free