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That is correct, I am saying that frugal, cheap living, cheapskate, tightwad, penny pinching are not good ideas. I am writing this because there have been a rash of threads about them recently. This is coming from a person who came from a poor family. I also, started working at 15 and tracked my spending down to the penny for a few months to determine where I spent it at that time. I also, hate paying full price for things and will search for a lower one.
Why is frugal and cheap living not a good idea? Because of how they influence your life, color your view of the world and the potential they have to steal from you.
The words you use do influence the way you think and the actions you take.
Negative Words Affect You More Than You Realise
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When you cease to poison your mind with negative words you will notice that you feel lighter in spirit, happier and more generous to those around you. You'll no longer see problems, only opportunities. You won't complain as much or focus on anything negative or bad - you'll be too busy thinking positive thoughts and pursuing your ambitions and dreams.
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STANFORD Magazine: May/June 2010 > Features > Cognitive Scientist Lera Boroditsky
There have been threads on going from saving mode to the challenges and difficulty of going to the spending mode. These are instructive examples of the problems with being frugal and cheap living.
I do not want to debate if frugal, cheap living cheapskate, tightwad, penny pinching are not good ideas or have a negative connotation, if it is changing, should it change or if they are negative to you personally. They are not virtues. Nor is this concept splitting hairs. The words we use influence our actions, how we perceive ourselves and others perceive us.
Try this experiment - say to yourself and let it soak in.
I live frugally.
I live in abundance.
I live cheaply.
I live with gratitude.
I live efficiently.
I live wisely.
The point of the exercise it the path the words put you on.
What word would be better than frugal, cheap living, cheapskate, tightwad, penny pinching? I don't have the answer - maybe other will. The word should have a positive connotation that puts the person on a positive path. Something like 'Simple Abundance' or
'I live a life of abundance through simplicity."
'I live a life of simple abundance"
Others with a marketing background might come up with a better word.
Why is frugal and cheap living not a good idea? Because of how they influence your life, color your view of the world and the potential they have to steal from you.
The words you use do influence the way you think and the actions you take.
Negative Words Affect You More Than You Realise
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When you cease to poison your mind with negative words you will notice that you feel lighter in spirit, happier and more generous to those around you. You'll no longer see problems, only opportunities. You won't complain as much or focus on anything negative or bad - you'll be too busy thinking positive thoughts and pursuing your ambitions and dreams.
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STANFORD Magazine: May/June 2010 > Features > Cognitive Scientist Lera Boroditsky
There have been threads on going from saving mode to the challenges and difficulty of going to the spending mode. These are instructive examples of the problems with being frugal and cheap living.
I do not want to debate if frugal, cheap living cheapskate, tightwad, penny pinching are not good ideas or have a negative connotation, if it is changing, should it change or if they are negative to you personally. They are not virtues. Nor is this concept splitting hairs. The words we use influence our actions, how we perceive ourselves and others perceive us.
Try this experiment - say to yourself and let it soak in.
I live frugally.
I live in abundance.
I live cheaply.
I live with gratitude.
I live efficiently.
I live wisely.
The point of the exercise it the path the words put you on.
What word would be better than frugal, cheap living, cheapskate, tightwad, penny pinching? I don't have the answer - maybe other will. The word should have a positive connotation that puts the person on a positive path. Something like 'Simple Abundance' or
'I live a life of abundance through simplicity."
'I live a life of simple abundance"
Others with a marketing background might come up with a better word.